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Bet this topic gets boring.. boys!
Well, I like this boy, let's call him Ryan, he is the drum major of our band. For all of you who aren't in the band, that's the student who directs us so our band director doesn't have to. Him and I never talked. He talks to EVERYONE else in the band except me. He will even walk up to a girl I am talking to, talk to her but not say a word to me (maybe that means he doesn't like me). He is also a boisterous, bubbly guy but comes time to say something to me, he is quiet and shy. At the performance we attended Saturday our band director forgot to tell us where we were going at one point so we just filed down the aisles and our drum major thought of that idea so to tell us where to go he put his hand on my shoulder for a good 2-3 minutes and said "follow the leader everyone.. me!" also when he congratulated us after our performance he marched up to where my section stands to tell us how good we did, I thought that was odd because my section is the front of the line, I thought he would go to the middle so everyone would hear. Also, one time at practice I borrowed my friends sweatshirt and it seems like after the drum major realized what I was wearing he got kinda mad, like, his attitude did a total turn around and he was a jerk in a matter of seconds. Also, when he does something crazy that our director tells him to do he looks at me all red when he's done and continues doing his thing. One more thing, when he is on the podium conducting, I see him look at me a few times, daily just to make sure I'm still there and okay, I guess and when he is on the podium and we are inside we form a circle he always has his back turned to my section. Does he like me and how could you tell? Any help is much appreciated!
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It doesn't sound like he likes you at all. In fact, it sounds like he opposite of likes you.
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I'm no expert, but I'd say he likes you but is really shy.
One of the keys to finding if a guy likes you is if he treats you differently from other girls. If he hated you I don't think he'd get mad at you for wearing someone else's sweatshirt. He wouldn't get JEALOUS, I mean. ;-)
He gets red in the face because he's worried what you'll think of him.
Why does he talk to a girl you're talking to, yet ignores you? Well, if you catch him looking at you right before, during, or right after talking to that girl, he's probably trying to gauge your reaction to see if you're jealous.
If he looks for excuses to touch you and be near you, looks at you alot, blushes around you, tries to make you jealous, gets jealous of boys being close to you, and chokes up around you, I'd say there's a good chance he's feeling something.
Good luck! ;-)
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