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Can't decide on what to choose


Question Posted Thursday September 10 2009, 6:33 pm

Hi however this might be. I am in the schools marching band and in the anime club. But i dont consider myself part of the band because i can't play my instrument well dont go to band gigs, and dont knw the routines or marches let alone have a uniform because i didnt go to band camp, and missed the first two weeks of school. Both the anime club and band rehearsels are on wedsnday last week i went to the club before rehersels started which was only half an hour i was in the club. This week i blew off rehearsels and stayed the whole time in the club. I like them both but i dunno what to do if i should stay the whole time one week then the next week ditch the club or rehearsels or how could i find a balance between them both. Thanks in advance for helping me out with this :)

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KisaKiss19 answered Friday September 11 2009, 3:16 pm:
Hello, whoever you are! XD
Hmm,well if you like them equally as much i would pick the one you do better at- that way you can excel in it. Think about your future and what would benefit you more. A lot of colleges look at the clubs you're in, and though anime club isn't as intence as band- maybe if you wanted to be some kind of drawer/artist it would look better on your resume. I think doing band would be great though, because not only does it look good on a college resume but its fun and if your into music it'll really give you a chance to learn so much more about it then if you hadn't joined. If it's possible maybe you could suggest to your band teacher if they could have your specific instrument play on a different day? Or if your really tight with the people in your anime club maybe you could all team up and convince the person running it to move it to another day if its possible :P.
If i were you these are the things i would consider :
Which one do i have more friends in?
Which one will i have more fun in?
Will this benefit me in the future?
Which one do i know more about and will excel in?

Keep weighing them out with these kinds of questions until you can narrow it down to one. I know you can do it ! And hey,think of it as a win no matter what, because either way you'll be doing something you love.

Hope I helped :)!
xkisakissx

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