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Why am i obsessed?
why am i obsessed with my boyfriends exs? like really i dont get it i compare myself.. even when i know i look better than them some times i 2nd guess myself. i find my self anonymously asking who looks better. what is my problem? i always look at there myspace and facebooks too. i cant help it..
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Haha, you're not obsessed. You just want to know all about them. It's likely a mystery to you as to why your boyfriend liked them, and you probably want to learn about them so you can either A) avoid the mistakes that they made, or B) try to understand what it is that your boyfriend liked about them. Besides, a little curiosity never really hurts! I've definitely done the same-- I admit to a fair bit of facebook stalking to see what the boy that I'm in love with has been up to. And to see the various wall posts that all of his little "friends who are girls" say to him. But, eventually you'll wear out on the happenings of these girls little lives, trust me. You'll realize that they're just NOT that interesting-- especially since you've got the boy!
But, if you're truly concerned about your obsession, try budgeting your time. Such as:
"First I will clean the floor of my room, and then I can ex-girlfriend-stalk for 5 minutes, and then I will continue cleaning"
or
"I will do these 5 homework questions and then spend 10 minutes on the computer"
or think to yourself "okay, I will not compare myself to them today, and if I must anonymously ask who looks better, I must only ask once within these next two weeks"
Things like that almost make getting over an obsession like a game. Haha-- not really.. but either way, it'll help! Good luck!
xx(:
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You're not obsessed, just curious. Everyone is. Heck, even I am.
I mean, I don't like my boyfriend's ex girlfriends, but I mean. I like to see what they look like and how they act to see why he was attracted to them in the first place, or why I'm the one he chose. Like what qualities do I have that they didnt ?
I do the same thing you do. It's not obsessive. It's just being curioous and kind of re-assuring in some ways. Trust me, he most defiently looks at your ex's facebook and/or myspace too. [I know SO many guys who do that.. i dont know if my boyfriend does/did though..]
I can't help it either hahaa, but you are sane and not obsessive. totally normal.
good luck ! dont sweat it and dont think your psycho :] you're not. if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
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