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can not move out.
I am having such a difficult time in my life right now. Mainly I am just sick of having to deal with the problems I have with my mom. And I feel like all men wants to do to me in sexualize me. Right now it really pisses me off that my mom acts like she wants to be distant from me and when she knows I am too upset she say things like I love you when the way she acts is far from that. I keep remembering what happened to us last year during new years eve that she does not care about me anymore at all . And wanted to leave me for ever . But then I am not working right now nor was I then. Cause the main reason is that I am a foreigner and I just came into this country 12 years ago. And that makes it hard for me to find employment since the only person that could fix my citizenship status to get a job is my mom. So I feel that its the only reason that I am still with her. And this feeling disgust me it just seems like all this feeling is coming from a negative place. Every time a subject comes up about my family I have to really watch what I have to say. I feel like this issue to me is so serious and I dont know where else to find help in las vegas, nv . I told her I go online for problems like this and she does not approve of it.
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When it comes with the guys. Dont date and make your self a limit like you wont sleep with a guy you are dating until you have been dating for 3 months. If he truely has feelings for you hell stick around. My mom and I are not close anymore and mostly because she drinks and smokes and just has guys to have sex with and now she has been dating a guy for sometime now who just beats on her. You just need to sit down and talk to her I dont know to much about the citzenship stuff. if you are over 18 do you still need her to help you become a citizen?
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Hi, we think you just need to take a deep breath and breathe. In all honesty, we know how it feels when eveything seems to be in pieces, but you just got to keep moving. We know it seems as if it's the end of the world, but it's not. All of, humans, tend to make things worser than it is. The problem can be so small, but we make it so big. So to fix this before it gets even worser, is to sit down and have a honest talk with your mom, no lies, but just honesty. And your mom loves you a lot even though she may not act like it, and this is because she's growing older. She may feel as if her whole life has past by so fast, and she just may feel like a failure even in life, or it might be just stress or deprssion. And jobs have been very hard to find lately, so just keep on trying, and talk to your mom about fixing your citizenship status. Just keep on moving, and rember everyday is a new start, a new beginning...
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Okay try to relax,
First of all, The economy these days makes it hard for everyone to get a job not just people who are coming from another country. Also, I think it would help if you sat down with your mom and tried to explain to her how you feel and how what she is doing is effecting you. Let her know that you need her and you need to support. I am also pretty sure there are places in Nevada that have places that can help you get a counselor to work with you. One of the places we have in my state that helps people is (South Shore) they are great and the provide therapist and counselors to those who need it. Talk to your mom and ask her if she can help you set up a goal.
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