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Losing a friend
So his tell me that we were going to move past the friendship stage was his way of telling me that he wasn't interested? His coming to TX to visit me personally was his way of telling me that he wasn't interested. When he came to visit, he wanted more time from me, I was didn't have anymore. So he was telling me that he wasn't interested in me and that he wanted someone else? Then I completely missed the hints.
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Yep. You did.
Maybe then, maybe later on.
Maybe in conversations you felt were unimportant.
Maybe in things you misinterpreted.
Maybe the guy is confused, disappointed or conflicted, then or now.
But fundamentally, yes. You probably missed or misinterpreted something.
It’s either that OR, he’s a liar and a player who led you on for a year... and his strong response against your question, paints his as a pretty fiercely loyal guy. It seems unlikely that he deliberately misled you, only that you misunderstood, or that he changed his mind.
If you never talked about that misunderstanding or his opinions of you while he was single, you don't have much a leg to stand on in demanding to know them now...
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