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new school
hi im male. im about to enter my junior year in high school. but im going into a new school. i only know like one person there, but hes not really like, normal.. like he doesnt really care about me.
the problem is, i dont wanna be sitting by myself! making friends isnt the problem, it just takes time. i need help, because i dont want to be sitting by myself on the first day. its not that im shy or weird or anything, im a pretty social person. its just that other people already have their own friends and wont care much about new people.
HELP! i start school on tuesday
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I move all the time and i change schools and from my experience in class if you talk to the people around you and have a fun convo they will ask you to hang out with them and if not then you can always ask them if they wanna hang out but most times for guys ive noticed that once they start having a cool convo with other guys they end up becoming friends so dw you will make lots of friends just talk to guys around you in your classes ans u'll be fine.
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Everyone gets the butterflies in their stomach whenever they start a new school. The jitters of meeting new people is always the challenge. But you have to feel more confident that you'll be alright in making new friends.
"its just that other people already have their own friends and wont care much about new people." If you keep on thinking that just cuz they won't give you a chance, then you definitely won't try to make friends with that idea in your head. And just because they already have friends doesn't mean that they can add one more, like yourself! Besides, if you say your a a pretty outgoing person then it shouldn't be too difficult into starting conversations with others. Just approach someone...and I'm sure you'll have classmates that would come to you because they want to make a new student feel relaxed.
Also, don't panic...it's only going to be the first day that you'll feel a little uncomfortable, but trust me...you'll have PLENTY of school days to build relationships with people and you'll have friends surrounding you in no time. Don't ever think it's like the end of the world just because you didn't survive the first day of school.
Be confident and good luck! =3
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