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im not a shy guy, its just that for some reason, for some ODD reason, i always find myself talking to a REALLY attractive girl who im interested in, and all of a sudden, they stop responding. like to messages on myspace and to texts. and if i see these kind of girls at school, they act all slow and uninterested. EVEN IF i never tried to go for them. its so weird and confusing. plz help.
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Girls are horribly confusing my friend, i'm one and i still don't get us XD! Hm, are you texting/messageing them a lot? They might feel a bit put off by that,if you are. The thing is, if they don't show interest in you-then don't show interest in them anymore(its not worth your time) Besides, it'll show THEM that you don't need them and can move on- which would probably make you seem more attractive (that whole want-what-you-cant-have- sort of thing). Do you give nice compliments and make them smile? If you really like a girl, its good to show her with these kind of things. If i were you i'd try just being there friend first- don't start talking to a girl with the intention of just being her boyfriend- if you don't have the basis of friendship you won't be able to grow on anything. Keep them interested ! Do funny things,compliments,challenge them! Be who YOU are, because if you're not you to begin with their just going to realize it later that you were frountin' anyways :P. No mater how weird you may be-speak your mind. Always be nice though,with the exception pf an occasional teasing flirt. :) Honestly dude though, don't worry if your not getting girls yet. The older you get the better relationships you develope with people and sometimes it just all falls into place. Go with the flow,don't try too hard, and if someone comes your way-whatever happens happens. And someone WILL come your way, don't worry! Stay confident in yourself, and keep positive energy: that positive energy will attract more people into your life. I hope i helped some,don't forget to flirt :P! haha,good luck :D!
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