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im so depressed from this one email...
PLEASE ANSWER ASAP.....!!!!!!!!!
okay so my best friend just told me that one of our guy friends has a crush on her and thinks she is hot ... but he moved away to somewhere like 17 hours away. BUT THE PROBLEM IS.... that he said "i think you are hot" (to my friend) and then he said "but your other friend ___(me)___ is not, i never thought she was hot" SO NOW... i am totally depressed cause i think that i am ugly and i feel ugly. i know that one persons opinion means nothing really especially since i dont even like this guy. UGH .... so now i have really low self esteem and i am kinda mad for my friend to tell me this .....it is kinda like bragging. so now i am kinda mad at her for saying like that he thought she was hot and i am ugly. so what do i do cause i dont wanna be mad at her and i am losing confidence in myself :( ANSWER ASAP!!!!!
thnxs :) :(
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okay, this is what i say...if she's your friend then she should of been careful the way she told you about what happened. My opinion on girls is that every girl is beautiful. Guys do have different opinions and tastes on girls these days. I don't really understand it, but you shouldn't really care what this guy thinks about you. just be happy that a guy thinks your friend's pretty. I don't know you, but i'm sure you are much prettier than i am. Just be yourself and put some nice unique you style into your life. Guys like girls who are themselves, so just do that. I know you can do it girl. :) Hope i helped atleast a little.
Your friend, lulabell aka lulu
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Different people have different tastes. That guy thought your friend is hotter than you so what?? I'm sure another guy may think you are hotter than your friend. Bottom line is that you shouldn't compare yourself to other people especially your friends because it leads to jealousy and troubles the friendship. YOu are who you are and some guys will like it other won't. Just how I'm sure there are some guys you find attractive and others you don't. DOn't be so hard on yourself and always remember that there will always be a girl that looks better than you as well as a girl that you look better than you.
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i'm so sorry :[ my friend just went through the same exact thing that you're going through right now. me and my 3 close friends went down the shore for a week together. We met these 2 guys, I have a boyfriend so I stayed out of my 3 friends way since they're all single and ready to mingle ;] hahaa. well, i was on the phone with my boyfriend, when one of my friends came up to me crying. I immediatley asked her what was wrong and she was telling me how one of my friends asked one of the guys what they thought of them. and basically, they said that im really cute and that if i didnt have a boyfriend, they would like me, and they said that my other friend was cute too and that my friend who asked what they thought said that she was realy cute and cool and all of this, but they didn't say anything about my friend who was crying, they just said, "she's quiet and not very pretty" ... i felt soooo bad for her. and like, my friend TOLD HER THIS TO HER FACE, i was so mad. like clearly, you don't do that to a person, so I know what you mean when you say you feel like your friend was bragging and that you're mad at her for doing that.
I had a long talk with my friend, [the one they said wasnt pretty] that night. I sat her down and told her this: it is one guy. ONE GUY who doesn't like you. It's okay. There are other guys out there who all have different oppinions and different taste in girls. No one can define beauty. Everyone is beautiful and pretty and special in their own way. So what ? one guys definition of pretty is different than th next guys. and yeah, she had no right to say that to you, but she probably told you because she wanted to share the information with one of her best friends because she was so happy about it. so be happy for her, but don't feel bad because you are who you are, and one day you are going to fnd the guy of your dreams who is going to treat you and think that you are the most wonderful/beautiful girl in the world.
I know this probably didnt help much, hahaa, but i tried :] I mean, you can't think that just one guy is like every single other guy ... because that's not true. you have to believe that you are pretty and everyone else will believe it too. walk with your head held high and have confidence. although, maybe you should talk to your friend baout how what she told you hurt your feelings. that's what my friend ended up doing and it got all cleared up afterwards. communication and confidence is key. you just have to WANT to make this better.
Just talk to her, and i promise that it will get better. hope i helped ! and if you need antyhing else, at all, feel free to inbox me :] good luck, and you are a beautiful girl, just because one boy doesnt realize that, doesnt mean you're not. remember that. xxo.
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just ignore it. you will find a guy whom likes you for you. it just takes time. and what people say doesnt matter.
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