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Hello again
Hello there, I'm the person you gave advice to about wether or not my friend in Florida felt the same way about me that I felt about her. The confusing messages she gives me. I wanted to run past you some conversations we have had the last few day via email and get your thoughts on them.
I asked her when the last time was that she woke up in the morning and said WOW what a wonderful day, I'm happy!! And her response to that was: "The last time I woke up happy was in Wi w/ you having fun! FREE! Away from Florida! So there. I felt very free and had lots of fun".
I also asked her if when she got married if she was very much in love with her husband and her response was: "No i wasn't SOOOO in love w/him mainly I wanted to get away from my step Dad and so he was the way out". Then she added the following statement: "I don't know why I just go along like I do, I think cause I really don't know what to do, or where I'd go, or where and how I would live. So I just do each day. Thats me".
Then I asked her why is she knows how I feel about her doesn't she ask me to get lost and leave her alone and her response was: "no I will never tell you to get lost! There is nothing you could tell me to make me want that!!!!!!!!!!, I wish I were there to have coffee on the front porch w/ U!!! I bet it is nice!"
Another odd thing: I have asked her straight out (in an email)if it bothers her that I feel the way I do about her and she just will not respond to that question!!! Don't you find that odd?
She also added this statement in her lastest email to me: "I am sorry things are the way they are! Like you say,"It is what it is!" Sometimes we can't change things."
Okay so there, does that shed any light on anything for you?? Any comments you have I will appreciate. I feel very strongly that she is in love with me but that her life circumstances won't allow her to admit it much less act on it.
thank you soooooooooooooooo very much for allowing me to chat with you like this!!
Kelsi
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yeah that all sounds like its pretty obvious that there are definitely feelings there. she would probably think you were a little crazy and try to push you away if she didnt feel anything. i think its more about convincing her that her happiness is whats most important rather than just settling for what she has now. to me its not even a question about whether or not she has feelings because to me its pretty obvious that she does. get her to like..i dont know read a self help book or watch oprah or something lol shes gotta get it through her head that she deserves to be happy!
not sure if thats what you were looking for but you can keep it coming if youve got more :]
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