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girl waiting for me
13/m sorry its so long
ok so im bad at....being a boyfriend i suppose would be the best way to put it.
so my girlfriend ill call S dumped me after a week of us going out about a month or so ago saying that i was too much of a fridget, didnt hold her hand enough and didnt tell her how much she meant to me(making her feel special like whispering in her ear she was beautiful and stuff)
ok before me and S were going out one of my other friends who is a girl as well told this girl, we'll call Tammy, that i like her but i never said that. so after me and S broke up tammy started talking to me a bit more and told me abuot how the girl told her that i said i liked her before me and S were going out and i said what?? i never said anything like that and she said well thats not what i heard and she was being real flirty and what i thought was hinting that she liked me too haha and so we were talking more lately and i actually started liking her (because before now i havent realy gotten to know her) but since i am so bad at being a boyfriend i told her that i dont want to disappoint her and hurt her feelings but she said dont worry im a fridget too so it shouldnt be too bad (she has only ever had one boyfriend) but i said i want to ask her out sooner or later but just not right now because of the reason i said before and she said she'll wait for as long as i need and i said thanks your a good friend.... but now i think like this girl who lives a few blocks away from my house and we walk to school together sometiems and we always joke around and flirt a bit but shes really confusing and sometimes takes things too seriously(her friends tell me this)
but i know i like tammy and im not sure if she will get angry about me and the girl who lives a few blocks away because i heard tammy hates her so i feel bad now but i dont want her to wait
so basically my questions are should i go out with tammy?
should i stop flirting with A(a few blocks away)
should i tell tammy that i dont want her to wait because i dont want to let her down
and if anyone has and tips or things i should know or just any advice they think would help me
your welcome to say
thanks
oh and im good at talking to girls before i ask them out but while we are going out i always dont say too much cause im worried that what i say will offend them or something like that or at least thats why i think i dont talk to them as much...
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If you really like Tammy then go out with her especially since she doesnt have alot of experiance with guys so she is less likely to think "your a bad boyfriend". It is ok for you to flirt with different girls as long as you arent actually going out with any of them. However if you do decide to go out with Tammy you need to be committed to her and stop flirting with the other girl.
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K well you should go out with tammy because she seems nice and you seem to like her and if shes willing to wait until you ask her out shes definitly likes you alot so ya go out with her but if you are going to go out with her you need to stop flirting with A first because its kinda mean to flirt with someone else and go out with someone else and if you decide not to go out with tammy yet then yes you need to tell her not to wait for you because wut if you dont really like her after or if you find someone else your going to hurt her tell her to move on unless your sure your going to ask her out. and when your going out with girls dont worry about offending them because not everything you say is going to offend them just be funny and talk about things she likes ask her about her hobbies and ya you'll be fine. Good Luck :)
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