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All we do is fight.
My boyfriend and i of one year all we do is fight and sometimes it's for no reason,i really love him but i don't think he wants to be with me anymore? well example this happened the other day well i wanted to go city today with a friend and i invited him along this was on Thursday,when i invited him he asked who's going i sai my friend and i and her friend she wants to meet for the first time he just came from America,then he goes oh what you're still going to without me aren't you i'm like why can't i go he goes because there's going yo be2 guys there that you don't even know and its her first time ever meeting them i said doesn't mean i'm going to talk to them he goes so you even say hi and i said well obivously i'm gonna say hi but doiesn't mean i'll start a conversation he goes okay what if they asked you how are you would you tel them i said yes then he goes there you that's a conversation.he told me it's not jealousy he's just scared anyways i didn't up going for him because i was scared if i was to loose him he couldnt come he has something on and i got upset cause i really wanted to see him then we just started arguing and all and we just argue for nothing he always tell me we shouldn't be together then he says i can't break up with you and he just says so much crap and honestly all i want is for us to stop arguing and fighting and suggestions?
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I think you guys need to have a serious talk about what you each want out of the relationship & where you think it's headed.
To me, it doesn't really seem like your relationship is headed anywhere good. If all you're doing is fighting with each other over stupid issues such as hanging out friends, then that's a problem. Chances are it's not even about friends. He has something else on his mind (which could possibly be breaking up) and he figures that by arguing with you over stupid things, he can make you break up with him.
You guys really need to sit down and have a talk about this. If the relationship isn't going well and the fighting doesn't look like it'll ever end, then the relationship has to end. I think that everytime he says you guys should break up, it's actually him wanting you to dump him. I think he wants out of the relationship but doesn't want to hurt you, so he'd rather that you dump him so it makes it easier. But what he doesn't realize is that breaking up is hard no matter who does it.
Seriously though, sit down & talk this out. In my opinion though, the relationship isn't headed anywhere good & I really feel like you guys should break up. Fighting is healthy, but you guys are fighting so much over such tiny things & that makes it really unhealthy and bad. Your relationship isn't growing & prospering. It's time to let go.
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Well talk to him. You tell him that your tired of fighting for stuff that makes no sense. Tell him all your feelings, don't be scared or feel bad by telling him the truth. Then of course let him tell you his side. If tells you again "that you guys should breakup" or "shouldn't be together". Then tell him if thats wat he really feels, or if thats what he wants. Cause of wat you said that you really love him, am thinking you don't want to let your relationship go down the drain. Both of you should make a list of the things you don't like, settle down and talk about it, and maybe change things. You don't know maybe things do change.
But if they dont then maybe all you can try to do is move on. Cause am slightly sure that you don't like to be arguin all the time. So just try.
Good Luck :)
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Well i suggest you guys sit down and actually look at the problems your having and talk about them its the best way to go about this because if you talk about it then there will be nuthing left to fight about tell him how you feel and in return he will tell you how he feels and tell him if he doesnt want to be with you then he needs to jus let you know now because you find it annoying that he cant make up his mind.
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