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Shy guy: keep trying, or give up?
18/F
I've liked this guy for almost 5 months, and have been waiting for something to happen. He really is one of the sweetest, nicest guys I've ever come to know. He's also a bit shy, and his last few girlfriends were quite aggressive, which I kind of am not Finally, after 5 months of me liking him and flirting he kissed me (just a couple of pecks on the lips). Apparently, he had been texting my sister for advice about me and has been telling her how much he likes me, and he likes how different I am. This was two and half weeks ago.
However, lately I feel like I'm back to square one. While he was away for the first week (he had a family reunion about an hour away) we would text and he would tell me missed me and stuff. But now that he is back, I still have not seen him, and I hardly get any calls. I understand that he is super busy with football (he has practice from 2-8) but I feel like every attempt I try to make with him gets shot down. I know for a fact that some of his friends go out after practice, too.
Some of my guy friends tell me I should give up, while my other guy friends tell me to keep trying. I don't know what I should do. I'm sick of being the person to make all the effort. I WOULD talk to him about this, but since we never actually have had a conversation about "us", I feel like I would come off as the crazy stalker girl.
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It seems like he does like you especially if he asked your sister for advice. From what i hear he backed off cause he wasn't sure you were that into him maybe you need to give him more signs. Show him that you want to be with him. Ask him questions that would make him give away that he likes you such as questions about your appearance or you can just straight out tell him your into him. If he has a lot going on than he might be unintentionaly ignoring you so give him some slack. Talk to him sometime during the weekend when he doesn't have a lot going on.
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Well talk to him..Call him or txt him and tell him if you guys can meet up somewhere. Not somewhere fancy. Like a park or maybe even ask him to take a walk with you. Make up something that you need someone to talk to too, and that he is the person you need at the moment. If he goes, you tell him, that you have had this gut in your stomach and cant handle it anymore. And from there you tell him everything. Don't feel that your going to be a crazy stalker girl. Just get himm by the hand and tell him what you feel. Thats all. And if it doesnt work then your just wasting your time. Maybe you can do better.
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Deffenilty talk to him. He likes you obvisouly. Dont put it as us. Bring up the fact how you kissed and how he said he missed you.
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