i think my boyfriends cheating and i was wondering if anyone could be really nice and write down a few signs of cheating that could occur in a relationship that he might be cheating on me PLEASE! thanks so much! </3
lacexface answered Wednesday July 29 2009, 1:13 pm: Okay well here's a few key signs:
-Usually isn't horny with you anymore and doesn't want to do things except occasionally.
-Very distant
-Moody
-Lies A LOT (makes you question if he's telling you the truth)
-He'll stop coming to you for advice
-Will let you win any argument, not caring who wins, just doesn't want to fight
[or he'll stomp out and come back and act like it never happened]
-Buying lots of new things, ie clothes
-The biggest sign is if YOU have to question whether or not he's cheating
-Also if you know any of his myspace/facebook/email passwords, I'd take a look at his inboxes, usually men aren't smart enough to delete anything
Drop me an inbox, let me know why you think he may be cheating on you <3 Hope I helped, trust me it sucks being cheating on .. it hurts, but I've gotten through it. If he is, you're strong enough to get through it too. [ lacexface's advice column | Ask lacexface A Question ]
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday July 29 2009, 12:38 pm: before i meet my fiance i dated this guy everything seemed perfect we moved in with each other.. i found a earring and pony tail in the bed which werent mine. he tried to say they were mine.. a phone number i didnt reconized called his phone. he started accusing me of cheating i had a bad feeling i called the number and it was a girl on a day i was supose to work sunday.. he said how long are you working are you talking a lunch at what time. can i drop you off and pick you up etc.. so that thursday i had a bad feeling he left his phone in his jeans in the bedroom shut off i took it plugged it in turned it on and found text messages that said i loveyou xoxo i cant wait to see you sunday. im so happy we are talking etc. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
jm93 answered Wednesday July 29 2009, 12:31 pm: -Become's distant..doesn't like talking about problems or anything.
-Ignore's your calls/texts often.
-He picks fight's with you a lot.
-He may even give you gift's or anything for no entire reason because he's feeling guilty (this is a maybe).
-He doesn't like you snooping around his stuff.
-If he talks about ending the relationship.
-If he hides new friends (like if you saw someone's phone number on his phone and you ask..he'll try and hide that).
-He'll change sexually (wanting to do different things)
-If he stares at other pretty girls for too long (this especially goes for guy's who don't usually stare at other woman much).
-If he becomes very moody suddenly.
-If he constantly wonder's where you are and/or what you're doing.(common sign).
-Or if you see the physical signs..you know, the lipstick on his clothes, hickey's, the smell of perfume, etc. This may even lead for him to take shower's a lot more often than he already did so that you have no evidence he cheated.
-Keeps phone on vibrate or turns it off at night so you don't hear/see anything suspicious.
-Another sign could be rumor's you hear..or even if a woman eye's you weirdly, and she's never done that before, that might be because she's the one he's cheating with.
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