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i want you to help me get my boyfriend and friends back please,
okk look i was going out with this kid for 6 months and we got so close like we even made plans that well get married,but it got so hard to be together so we decided to take a break but not those breaks like see other people no we saw each other and kissed and said i love you like usual we acted like we were together he also got me a promise ring and diamond braclet all this stuff. but for some reason im those people who cant control them selves and always cheates on people so wat happen was i cheated on him with my friends ex i kissed my friends ex when we went out and i was scared to tell anyone so i told my friend he did it i lied to her. till the other day he went and told my bf how i kissed him and told all my freidns. after tht all my friends hate me now they wont talk to me and im dying here because ther everything to me and i need my bf bak please help me hes everything i got i cant lose him i hurt him like hell im serious he never cried ever till the day he found out im telling u i like stabed hhim in the heart whn he found out and now he wont talk to me and all my friends hate me please help me what do i do pleasee youl like save my life right here i need them bak all of them cuz now im alone
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First you need to figure out why you cheat. It could be for attention but the main reason girls repeatedly cheat on their boyfriends is because they have a need to feel loved by others because they aren't loving themselves enough. If thats the case then you will not stop your behavior until you find a way to make yourself happy without relying on anyone elses attention. You are experiencing the reprocussions of your actions and it deeply hurts. Maybe this is enough to help change your ways. If it is, go to your boyfriend and reveal the reason you feel the need to cheat and explain that now that you have identified the source you can fix it and be faithful. Let him know that it had nothing to do with not being satisfied with him but that you were trying to fill an emptiness you felt and that was the way you chose to try and fill it. Once you learn to love yourself you will not feel the need to get that love from others. You are not alone. This situation happens to MANY more girls than you would think and it is very admirable that you can admit you are one of those girls. I wish you the best in this transition as I know how hard it can be. As for your friends, they should not abandon you because you make mistakes. Explain to them why as well and if they do not respond in a supportive and positive way then you need to consider finding ones that will. Stay strong. Remember your well being is number one and a life without him is managable!
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First of all, you need to make things right with this 'kid' you are/were dating. Then move to your friends. Tell them you regret everything and express how much you care for them.
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ok well firstly,i dont mean to sound harsh but you need to hear this.if you wnat your friends back it shouldnt be for you.it shouldnt be because you need them and because u dont have any friends anymore.it should be because you feel bad for what you did and feel guilty about it.you need to feel all the right reasons or else its worthless and your just going to cheat again.Right now your bf is hurt,you touched another boy,you went with another boy while he trusted you.hes ahsamed and humiliated.you probably already know all this but im telling you just incase you dont and just incase you dont see how much you hurt him.
now my advice...you need to know that you may get him back and you may not.he may not be able to trust you again.if you think you may cheat on him again then dont even try to get him back you you may break him forever!if you want to get him back you need to prove to him that your worth it.you need to not give up on him.you need to keep trying even if he tells you he doesnt want you back.go to his house if you have to prove to him that your worth it prove to him that you wont do it again and that its a mistake. remind him how much you love him and tell him why you cheated on him.tell him that theres soemthing wrong with you not him.admit that you did wrong and that everyone deserves a second chance and that you cant get things perfect the first time around.beg him if you have to.buy him a rose and put it in his locker and write him a card apologising.do everything you can and dont give up until youv tried everythign you can
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