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Question Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 9:35 pm

hey.. im 14/f

i have been masturbating for 2 years.... it can be addictive at times. Well i am stopping BUT i heard you can do damage physically to something. like tearing or something IDK? anyways i dont go in side i just kinda rub. Its not like fingering or anything. I was just wondering... could i damage something or anything. And if so is it bad. im really worried i did something. just from hearing all these things. nothing hurts though. and i did it once during my period. IS THAT BAD??

please answer a.s.a.p. thnxs :) <3

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solidadvice4teens answered Tuesday July 21 2009, 10:01 pm:
I noticed you deleted this question but felt I should answer. You can be as rough as you want or gentle and it cannot damage you physically or destroy your genitals. No matter what you do it isn't wrong, bad, sinful as 78% of females of all ages and 90% of males do. The rest are liars or don't for cultural reasons.

Unless you're using power tools or items that are jagged and can tear you're fine. Even if there was fingering, insertion etc. you can't hurt anything no matter how you tried. I just wanted you to see that you're A-okay no matter what you do.

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karenR answered Sunday July 19 2009, 10:34 am:
You won't damage anything. You are normal.
Don't use anything sharp or get to rough as
has already been mentioned and you will be ok.

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Darby answered Sunday July 19 2009, 12:22 am:
Masturbating is completely normal and healthy in most cases. The horror stories you're hearing probably happened with people that were being much.. rougher.. than you are. You're not even entering the vagina at all, so you can't do any damage.

What people are probably talking about is messing up the reproductive system while it is still developing. Plenty of people masturbate at young ages though. The people in the stories you have heard have done something other than just normal rubbing/fingering. They've probably stuck something much larger and harder inside of themselves and been extremely rough enough to tear something inside of them. And I mean, very rough.

Also, it's okay to masturbate on your period.


Darby(:

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