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I am weird!
People never really call me weird, but im sure they do because high school is like that .
i made a bunch of plans to hang with people and people always hang out with me as sloppy seconds.
i feel really bad because im new here, but people say im not really new.
ive been here for 6 months and people have hurt me a lot.
and have talked because my back a lot. and i havent done anything to anyone.
all i did was have a boyfriend and we broke up.
i guess im just not cool enough.
i feel horrible about it
this from monday - to now, friday morning.
ive been asking people if they wanted to go to the movies
or do this, do that.
go to the mall
and no one wants to.
and now that i realized it.
i think i have a talking problem
i dont know how to talk properly to people.
i am really open and ask them questions of what they think about high school
and so they say "oh ive got to go"
i feel so left out, i don't know what to do.
ive looked up advice of how to be mature, how to remain calm.
and ive asked really close friends from other countries that ive lived in for help and they say, "its just the american culture to be mean to everyone"
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Hahaa, not all americans are mean :] There are plenty of nice people out there, and there are plenty of mean people too. So there's a fair share of both. Just because you've lived in different places does NOT mean that you should be treated any differently than somebody else. Obviously, those idiots are jealous of you and want what you've had or still have. If you don't fit in, then stand out ! Who cares what people think of you, you are so much better than them, and don't worry, in no time, you're gonna find a group of friends who will accept you and want to be your friend. Not some jerks who talk behind your back and hate you for no apparent reason. If I were you, I'd either stop talking to those mean kids or be nice to them, just don't hang out with them or waste any more of your time on them. They're not worth it, trust me. You don't deserve to be treated as a "sloppy second" you sould be treated as NUMBER ONE :] hahaa everyone should feel like that, not unhappy.
When you go back to school, just talk to all kinds of different people, and you'll find kids who will let you be you :] and like you for it. Oh, and for now, just try meeting new people, and stay away from those jerks.
good luck !hope i helped. have fun and don't sweat it, you'll be fine :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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well, its not america thats being mean. Its the people in your area.
In the southern states, suprisingly people are MUCH nicer!
really, you are hurting yourself more by caring what others think. But when it comes to others, stop trying so hard. you might be coming off desperate to them, and most people dont know how to handle that maturely. Make sure you arent trying to change yourself to please others. you need to love yourself first, and just find the right crowd for you. chances are, you might be trying to fit in with people that are never going to change, so just find some people who accept you for who you are. You will be much happier.
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steph
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