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Boy bestfriend and me
My boy bestfriend and I made out . I never thought he saw me that way , he has a girlfriend , and i have a boy im talking to seriously , Ive always been very confused what Ive felt for him , and I think maby he feels the same but im scared to ask if he has feelings for me Should I or just let fate run its course ?
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Talk to him . or if your to confused take some time and think. do you relly just wont to be the other girl the just friend or do you wont to be something more. once youve figured it out arsk him what made him kiss you. if he likes you. then great. but try not to get your hopes up to high. :)xx
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if you like him, and want to be with him; ask. be str8 up. or simply say something like; what made you kiss me? or even i've been thinking about the time we kissed... did it mean anything? hhmmm, idk, i'd ask if u wanted to be with him. and if its ment to be, then it'll happen and if not, then just forget it happend and keep being best friends :]
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I agree with Jack.
Never, EVER be the other woman. Never be the reason someone broke up. There are no exceptions, if a break up is warranted then the guy needs to walk away of his own accord (or get dumped) and if a break up is not warranted you're creating a history of fucking up relationships.
If you want to continue to be friends, be friends. If he asks you about your feelings, be honest. But do not start that conversation yourself except to speak up and tell him that you aren't going to do anything like that again while he has a girlfriend.
If he breaks up with her for you, make him wait month or two before you date him. Tell him thats what you're making him do, that he isn't going to jump out of one relationship and into another, that you want him to break up and stay broken up, that he's got to be sure he wants what he wants and that its not just the passion of the moment.
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I think you should stay away from the girl with a girlfriend. You don't want to be known as the slut that broke them up or something.
As for the guy you're talking to, try things out with him. Maybe if things don't work out with him, things might eventually work out with your boy best friend.
But I wouldn't tell him you don't know how you feel about him. I mean, he might like you, but things will get complicated if you make him decide when he's already in a relationship. It's not fair to him, yourself, or his girlfriend.
--Jack
(17/m)
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hey there,
okay you both made out,which obviously sugests you both have feelings for each other?
you need to talk to him about it though seeing as he has a girlfriend. you two need to sort this out before the confusion gets worse and things complicate further,avoiding it wont help.
fate doesnt always run its course so ive learned anyway.
dont be scared to ask,how will you ever no for sure if he feels the same way or not?
its worth a shot youve got nothing to loose,and alot to gain.
if he doesnt feel the same and regrets making out then you deserve to know right?but i doubt this is the case from what i can see you both are feeling confused about what happend and your feelings and definately need to talk things over and see where the other stands,its for the best =]
I hope this helps and that things work out for you
much <3
Jess
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