i need a positive reinforcement...PLEASE HELP
So...i have been fingering myself since i was lyk 10 & i do continue doing it (im 14 now) but im beggining to get scared cuz one of my clitoris is like really large, brown nd ugly, nd i dnt know wierd. It makes me self councious nd i dont know what im goin to do when i have sex or when my boyfriend gets into my pants to finger me. I just get really worried/nervous/scared. Do you know what this is? 14/f
~~~Olie (or u can call me Michii) D=
Perhaps you mean your labia. They don't stretch or anything so it has probably always been that way.
Most guys are not going to inspect it that closely so I wouldn't worry about it.
If this is something you believe is a new development, see your doctor. An OBGYN is not
necessary. Your family doctor will see you for
any problem you feel you have. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
steph2k10 answered Sunday July 12 2009, 1:11 am: The previous poster is correct in saying that your first sexual act should be special.
HOWEVER
you know your body better that anyone and if you have been doing this for 4 years and you have noticed a strange change in your body, you should consult your OBGYN. If you dont go to one yet, tell your mother that you think something might be wrong, and she will understand. Ignoring your body's signals is dangerous. If its something that you've never seen before, get it checked out. theres many things it could be.
BahaiMa22 answered Saturday July 11 2009, 8:49 pm: Everyone is different down there, We are not all exactly the same. Don't worry about it, It will be fine. When you have sex for the first time it's special and that won't even matter I promise. [ BahaiMa22's advice column | Ask BahaiMa22 A Question ]
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