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DAD's
14/f
Hi, my dad just stprmed out of the house like he normally does and now i want advice because i am tired of IT!!!!!!!! okay well my stupid sister did her regular routine of being annoying which normally i end up having to take the blame for her stupid actions. Anyways my dad always calls me a bitch, says i should die in hell, and that i am a stupid child that should have never been born. He only says these things when he is mad BUT i dont know anymore. He says it so much that i am starting to feel ALL THOSE THINGS. i want to run away but i know that will only make him more mad do i dont think i will. BUT he is so mean .... all he says is that i am a bitch who should die in hell!!!! WHAT DO I DO!???
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Do you have a relative that you can trust? If so approach them and tell them what your dad calls you every time he gets angry. They can then lay into him and tell him that this is the wrong way to treat his children and that he needs professional help with anger.
You can't tell him that yourself and I wouldn't advise it. If people he knows get their backs up over this than it will make him embarrassed and seek help. Your family could use some counseling from the sounds of it as nobody relates well to each other.
You could also tell your guidance counselor or teacher that your father constantly refers to you as stupid, a bitch, a child he never wanted and that you should rot in hell etc etc. Those aren't the words of a normal person and may suggest mental health issues.
Your teacher could then bring in your principal, counselors etc. and really be stern with your parents about being concerned for your emotional well-being. They can make sure you can get some support and help.
You should tell him in a letter how he makes you feel and that you think your relationship with him is non-existent. Maybe that would help him see. No matter what angry or not nothing justifies what he's been saying. Make sure others know about it. That's how to stop it.
Tell your friends about this, their parents etc. and have them approach your family about what they've heard from you. If more people do this your father will see that there's a big problem here that he needs to admit to and get help for.
For all you know this problem could be fueled by alcohol, addiction, bad marriage, mental health or something big that hasn't a thing to do with your sister or yourself.
When it comes to your sister stay out of her way where and when you can and pick carefully when you choose to fight. Walk away. If you get blamed accept it. The more mature you appear to me may mean the less you have to deal with venom from everyone. Start telling everyone who can help you about your home life.
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