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My friends girlfriend is insane!
So, one of my good friends has been going out with this girl, who is presumably insane.
The first time he had broken up with her, she jumped in front of a truck, and later keyed his car (Mustang GT).
He's going out with her again, but her jealousy is starting to affect our friendship.
She has this idea that everyone is out to steal her boyfriend, and basically restricts him from most of his friends.
Another friend of mine, a girl, had been talking to his girlfriend. She was accusing my friend of talking shit about her boyfriend, and when questioned, the she told her that the only person she's been talking about him to, was me.
So without asking me about it, his girlfriend runs off and tells him that I've been talking shit.
I just recently figured this out (A matter of hours ago). This would be an explanation of why he had stopped talking to me, well, about a week or so ago.
But the problem is, I have no way of contacting him. He's ignoring my calls and texts, and I rarely see him now.
I have no clue what to do. I've considered talking to his roommate (Also a friend of mine) and asking him to talk to my buddy about it, but I'm not sure how that would turn out.
I'm desperate to get my friend back. Please help.
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HAHA wow yeah she sounds crazy!
i really think that you should talk to his roommate about it so that he can talk to your friend...im sure that should help. because like you can get the roommate to ask the guy questions about it and have him say like "hey why arent you and that kid (you) talking anymore?" and just stuff like that will lead to finding out what a solution is for the problem!
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Hey there,
first off i want to say im sorry to hear that your in this situation its a pretty sh*ty one to be in.
it was extremely unfair of her to run off and say that to your friend,without knowing the facts this girl seems extremely selfish and controlling it looks like shes trying to stop your friend from having any sort of a life that involves anything or anyone other then her.
the girl needs help,maybe theres something in her life,past situations etc or whatever causing her to be this way.
your friend can't see it because he is too consumed in the idea of a relationship he NEEDS to break up with her before he looses everyone around him that he cares for the most.
id advice you to definately talk to the room mate tell him to ask your friend to just hear you out that you didnt talk shit you deserve at least that much.
if this fails send him one last text,email or leave a voice mail saying your worried about him & miss hanging out with him and that you think the girl isnt doing him any good and that hes loosing his friends and stuff over her let him know your still here for him if he decides to want to break up.
try be paitent with him and dont give up on him just yet,he will figure it out for himself and sadly all you can do is wait for that to happen and be there for him afterwards
if you keep telling him all the stuff he doesnt wanna hear right now itl push him further away.
id also sugest if he decides to break it off with the girl maybe get him to speak to one of her friends or family members that hes worried about her get them to keep a close eye on her too incase she tries anything like jumping in front of a truck again!
good luck,sorry I couldnt be of more help thats all you can really do hopefully he will come around soon enough,at least you know youve tried and been a good friend =)
Much <3
Jess [15/f]
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