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Rebelling
Iam getting sick and tired of my older sister getting away with anything and everything.
She has more privlagdes than me and is allowed really to do what ever.
I ask my mom one simple question and i get yelled at.I told her im going to just start being like my sister and she she went wild.
My sister is 17 iam 15.
She has a boyfriend and so do i.
She gets to stay the night with her boyfriend unsupervised.
I ask to stay over at mine with supervision
and that was a straight no.
Iam beginning to hate being here.
And feel like i should rebell and do whatever i want just like my sister.
I get compared enough so why not just prove to everyone that i CAN BE EXACTLY THE SAME
if they want.
What should i do?
thanks.
Xratedlove..
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It sucks being the younger sibling, doesn't it?
You don't get the same privileges as your sister simply because you are younger. I know it's no fun watching her get to do things that you're not allowed to, but you are younger. If you had a 13 year old sister, should she have the same privileges that you do? Definitely not!
I had way more privileges at 17 than I did at 15. As you get older, things will change. Till then, follow the rules as best you can and they'll be more likely to be more lenient with you in the future.
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She probably treats you like you're immature because you are obviously immature. You want to rebel. How mature is that? Not very. Show her that you're mature and she'll start letting you do more things. Rebelling is just going to make things worse, probably get you grounded, make her not trust you, make her keep a closer watch on you, etc.
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You probably don't want to hear this but...rebeling will only make things worst. You should not rebel against your parents. It would only make them more protective. I think your parents give your sister more priveleges because she's older and they probably realize that she's old enough to deal things her way...I mean, she's almost an adult. You're parents are just looking out for you. Just sit down with your parents and sister and just tell them how you feel. You should make some rules that both of your agree with.
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