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Boyfriend cheated.
I'm 16, female.
My boyfriend of 2 years recently cheated on me. he was at a party and had sex with a senior from my school.i broke up with him. he now says he regrets everything and wants me back.He told me he loves me and only me. So, my question is should i believe him and take him back? i mean i love him and everything, i just don't wanna get screwed over.
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I say that u should forget all about him because if he loved you he would not have cheated no matter what. But this is your call if u still want him that's you. That would be a good way of getting your heart broken again.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater.
He's done it once and what will stop him doing it again?
I could understand if you took him back if he kissed another girl but he had sex . Sex is supposed to be private between you and him, and he broke that. He broke all the boundaries.
He may say he loves and only you, but obviously not enough otherwise he would of controlled himself.
You were right to break up with him, and of course it's right that you still love him - because feelings dont go away that easily.
If he loves you as much as you him he wouldn't of done what he does. Maybe the relationship was never a two way thing. I may be going into this too much however overall you were right to dump him and its going to take time to get over him if you decide being single is best.
Good Luck,
Sage:)
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I wouldn't take him back.
Cheating hurts, and only brings along drama. Don't take him back. He made a mistake, and now he needs to deal with the consequence. Taking him back will make you look stupid, and if you take him back, your lesson will never be learned. Don't take him back.
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like the other person said, theres a huge chance it will happen again. you have your whole life ahead of you, and you wouldnt want to get stuck with someone who isnt loyal to you.
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I have had this same thing happen but more than once. I know how you feel, you think about how he hurt you and you think that you should hate him but you dont. You still love him and you think about the sweet times more than the bad. Its really hard. But this is completly up to you. Talk to him and tell him that your dead serious and he better not mess up again or you wont even talk to him anymore, tell him that you will act like you never knew eachother. If he cares about you this will scare him and most likely he will change.
But there is a big chance that it will happen again. So be careful.
Hope i helped. And if you need anything else feel free to go to my column and ask me =]
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I like your use of screwed over. Really fitting.
Yea you're going to get screwed over.
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