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can you help me my boyfriend was seen flirting with another girl what do i do?
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Confront him about it, but not in an overly aggressive way. Just point out that someone told you he was flirting with so-and-so. I don't really know what you mean by flirting. If he was just seen talking to another girl, don't say anything to him. That's way too jealous and controlling. If he was touching/hugging or whatever, that's a case where you might want to ask him what's up. Just tell him that you don't do that with other guys and that you'd appreciate it if he wouldn't do that with other girls. Let him explain his side of the story though. Don't jump all over his case without knowing what was really going on.
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Flirting is not a bad thing. it isn't like he was cheating or trying to hook up with someone else. Most guys don't even realize that they are even flirting until you say something to them and even then they don't believe it. Don't let it upset you. Tell him that it kind of upset you but don't make it a huge issue. To relate to you My boyfriend is a huge flirt. But i don't really mind because i know that he really does love me. You just need to be able to trust your boyfriend enough to know that he won't purposely hurt you.
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just tell him it made you a little uncomfortable and in a nice way you didnt really like it.. dont hold it in, dont think bad of it. everyone flirts, just depends how mucch and how often.. especially if your still young, let him live, and you do the same.. its life, but communicate. if he cant respect it and it truely bothers you, end it
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