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hi. i'm really a go-getter. i've listed all the things i want to experience before turning 20 but i don't know where to start!!!
i want to do lots of things but i just can't start on something!
i want to learn baking, photography, driving,volunteer at a charity,mountain climbing,change my fashion style, etc.. and etc!!
i just don't know where to start! pls. help. i don't want to end up having lots of these goals but regret them for not being able to do them. LIFE IS SHORT.
~dreamer.18/f
Start with something you can do. Start small and work your way up. Start taking pictures whenever you go somewhere new. Bake a dessert for your family once or twice a week. Start with the things you know you can do without to much stress. It takes time to become good at things. And if you wanna change your style start off wearing a different style shirt or shoe and just keep changing everything gradually until you get to a style that you are comfortable with. If you want to volunteer you can always ask someone you know who does it and if you don't know anyone who does then look up some information online. Don't start with the hard things like mountain climbing. You need to work out to prepare for that so you won't hurt yourself. Don't think of it as being goals you can't do, think of it in the easiest way possible and no that you can do whatever you set your mind to. Just don't procrastinate for too long. Hope i helped :)
can you help me my boyfriend was seen flirting with another girl what do i do?
Flirting is not a bad thing. it isn't like he was cheating or trying to hook up with someone else. Most guys don't even realize that they are even flirting until you say something to them and even then they don't believe it. Don't let it upset you. Tell him that it kind of upset you but don't make it a huge issue. To relate to you My boyfriend is a huge flirt. But i don't really mind because i know that he really does love me. You just need to be able to trust your boyfriend enough to know that he won't purposely hurt you.
Okay! Im 14 and my Question is Why are parents so over protecting Girls but not boys? I mean of course Im going to like boys. I can't help that.
Parents only over protect their daughters because so much emotional distress can be involved in having a boyfriend. No matter how tough you are, boys can cause some real damage. They can get way out of hand as well. For parents they see it that if a girl has a boyfriend then it has to lead to sex. And if that happens then they worry that you could get pregnat or get some kind of disease. For boys its different. They can't come home and be upset over loosing a girlfriend because they will usually start in on another unsuspecting girl as soon as they can. It takes awhile for a girl to put herself back together. Don't take what they are saying to heart. Just talk to them about how you feel about the situation and tell your mom that you know that you are ready for this step. You are only 14 but just reassure her that you know what you will be getting yourself into and that you are prepared for it adn that you really want her to be there for you.