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boy shyness
where does being shy around guys come from?
practically every guy i tlak to i can't seem to tlak to them. small tlak it easy. but like...everything else doesn't. i know i'm suppose to tlak to them like i talk to girls but then i get all choked up and shy
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It doesnt really come from anywhere, some girls are really comfortable around guys and others are just really shy it all depends on your personality.
I know that this will be hard at first but you have to be comfortable with yourself and then you will be more comportable around guys. When your friends are with guys just go up and start talking to your friends and then jump in the convo that they are having with the guys. The more you talk the more comfortable you will get. Hope i helped =]
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well do you have any friends that hang around with guys? i was in the same position not long ago but all my friends were mates with the guys and when i hung out with them the boys were there too.
try being friends with one boy then go and talk to another when you feel comfortable.
hope that helps,
abiee xx =]
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It's just your nerves. It most likely happens around guys because you're not accustomed to talking to them the way you are girls. You have a lot of girl friends that you're around all the time, so talking to a guy feels a lot different.
Once you start talking to guys more often, this will fade a little. Most people are shy around the opposite sex, especially in their adolescent years.
Just try to take a deep breath the next time you want to talk to a guy. Don't put so much pressure on yourself to keep the conversation going. Just be yourself and be natural. It's okay if there are slight pauses in conversation or if you stutter a tad bit. The more you talk to guys, the easier it will be.
Darby(:
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