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coming out of the furry closet
How do I tell my mom that I am a furry?
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Do you need too?
Seriously, ask yourself that.
Do you need to tell your Mom that you are furry? Is it imporant that she knows this? Is it going to effect your relationship or who you bring home?
I don't tell my mother that I keep handcuffs and nylon rope beneath my bed... She doesn't need to know that! It doesn't change who I am and she doesn't WANT to know that.
Seriously consider if this is the sort of thing you really need to go public with. Unless you plan on bringing your boyfriend over for dinner whilst he is dressed as a raccoon, it really isn't.
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You will (well, we hope to god you will) grow out of being a furry.
Being a furry is not like being homosexual. Its not a lifestyle, or a biologically determined state of sexual attraction, its just a creepy group of people who felt the need to give themselves and their kink a label and then pretend that its somehow a lifestyle choice.
Do what every other person in the fucking world does, and keep your sexual bullshit in the bedroom and away from other people. No one wants to know.
If you respond and say its not sexual, that its just who you are, or something similar, the answer remains the same. No one wants to know, your parents have enough on their minds without learning the exact degree of creepy their child thinks is normal and desirable.
The furry closet? Do you want to wear cat ears and a foxtail to school to embody your wolf persona? Seriously kid, theres something wrong with you. You really shouldn't indulge it.
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What you need to do is tell your mom that you need to talk to her. You have something serious to tell her. Practice infront of a mirror first. Then you two need to go somewhere where you won't be distracted by anything. Sit down and calmly tell her.
There is no other way to tell her then to be blunt about it. But calmly. Good luck.
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
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Honestly....????
You just gotta suck it up and say it. Can't be an easier way then the blunt honest truth really. Deal with the reaction as it comes :)
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