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he has lied so many times..should i still trust him
NOTE: IM IN A RUSH SO SOME OF THE GRAMMER AND WORDS MAY NOT MAKE SINCE..and MIGHT BE STRAIGHT RUBBISH
im a 10th grader and the talk around school in my grade is who has had sex or not.. i mean its not a big deal but like...i wanna know who has or not..wel me and my best friend jesse..know alot of people who have and they tell us in secret..but i always tell him even though i promised that person i wouldnt say anything..and i thought he told me everyone he knows..but latley theres this other girl he hangs out with and me and her are cool too..but she told him that her and her boyfriend have and he never told me.. i asked him if they have a couple of times because they are always just there..kissing..he always says no..well like 3 days ago two of my other best friends told me that she had told them on two different occasions and one of them said that the girl had told him too...so i was in shock that he never told me..and i asked him about it the next period and he said he didnt know..and i just walked away because i knew he was lying..and well i just said..i see how you are..and he said fine dont believe me..well i let it go and today while i was on the phone with him..i told him just to tell me if he knew because i already knew they have..he still said no..and played like he didnt know for like 10 mins...finally he confused and said he did know but he just didnt want to tell me.. I find him as my best friend and i tell him everything i know..i mean everything..and i just feel like he isnt telling me everything..
what should i do..should i stop telling him my secrets..what do you think..and
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he lies like ALOT so yeah..idk if i should trust him anymore
19 minutes ago
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You're in tenth grade. So you're what, 15/16 years old?
I agree with the two below me as far as people trusting you with their secrets and you not being trustworthy.
But what you're asking here is should you still trust him. I'm going to go ahead and say that he shouldn't trust you and you shouldn't trust him. You're both immature and gossipy. If he's willing to tell everyone's secrets, and you're willing to do the same, there's nothing stopping you two from doing it to each other.
I don't understand why anyone would care so much about whether or not two people have had sex. That is their business, not yours. I don't really understand this because I'm 17, so I'm not much older than you, but I would never ever care that much about what other people are doing in the privacy of their relationships.
You guys need hobbies.
As far as not being friends with this kid anymore, I think you're perfect for each other in a friendship sort of way. You both act the same and have the similar interest of meddling where you don't belong.
Darby
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I totally agree with the previous answer.
you cant be trusted either if you tell peoples secrets like that.
did you ever think maybe its you he cant trust?becuase youd go blabbing it around the place.
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If you are being told these things in secret, doesn't that mean someone is trusting you to keep your mouth shut? You made a promise to keep a secret and you broke it. YOU lied. You can't very well condemn Jesse for lying when you're a liar. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black?
Jesse doesn't spread gossip, from what I can gather. He does keep his mouth shut. I guess to him a secret is a secret. You are way too nosy for your own good. Who sleeps with who is none of your business. I wonder who is talking about you behind your back?
Find something better to occupy your time.
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