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ugh boyfriend...should i invitehim?
hey i need advice as soon as possible. i'm having a little get together tonight and me and my boyfriend got into a fight last weekend so i haven't talked to him all week and itold him to call if he wanted to talk about it..he never did. so i'm having this little party tonight andone of my friends accidentally clued him in on it. i haven't told him about it yet but idk if i should. i love him and we've bee together for 9 months and i plan onmaking it last longer but idk what to do. should i invite him? and how? what should i say to him? thanks so much
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I think you should invite him, by doing this you will be taking control of the situation. Besides, if you don't invite him it may appear that you are trying to annoy him or rub his face in it on purpose, and could make matters worse.
However, I think you should call him and ask him to come round a bit before everyone else does, so you can talk. That way, you can talk and sort things out before everybody else comes, and the evening won't be awkward for anyone.
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Yep, definitely invite him. You need to be the bigger person in this situation-- if he knows there's a party and he's not invited, he can always say "Well YOU didn't invite me!" and have a semi-legitimate reason to be mad. If you invite him and he comes, it means he's ready to start working things out. If he doesn't, then at least you know you can't be blamed for doing anything wrong.
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"i love him and we've bee together for 9 months and i plan onmaking it last longer"
Not inviting him implies the exact opposite.
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...He's your boyfriend. I don't know what little tiff you two have had but it needs to stop. Why don't you be the bigger person in this and talk to him first.
Quit the childish games, invite your boyfriend and have an awesome time!
Just tell it like it is - "I'm having a get together tonight, would you like to come?"
Good luck.
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i would call him. because if you don't and he finds out about the little get together at your house he might be mad. and it might make things worse than they already are. call him and tell him your sorry about whatever happened last weekend. and tell him you don't want to be in a fight and that you want to make things last with him. then let him know about the get together at your house and tell him that you really want him to come. (if you do want him to come)
hope i helped. anything else just ask.
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If you want things to last between you two, you should probably invite him. Try to get some alone time to talk about your problems, though. Don't start a fight again, though, & even if you were right, just don't bring it up. Tell him you love him & you just want to put it behind you all so you can have fun. If you don't invite him, he'll probably be pretty upset.
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