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I just don't know if he likes me ...
Sorry it's a bit long :P ...
So I've been talking to this guy just before Spring Break (Which was about a month ago), and we talked on Msn like EVERYDAY. Not one day we would not talk to eachother. But I recently started liking him a few days before Spring Break too... And now I really like him and don't know what to do ... Aboutt , 2 days before Spring Break I think, he asked me what his ringtone should be between these 2 songs. I picked one and like a minute later he goes, ohkay that ringtone it is. He asked me about my ex, and lots of things. But the thing is... I only have one class with him, and we sometimes talk there. And all of a sudden a few days AFTER Spring break, we stopped talking. Like, the conversations "die". Although I wanted to tell him I like him, and I got some of my friends advice too, but then they said that I should wait a little longer. Now I really don't know what to do so we can "bond" more and become a bit more closer. And also, I had other boyfriends, but its never been this hard to tell them I like them for some reason. The problem, is that I don't want our friendship to end with him ignoring me. And I just really don't know what to do now, what can I do so we can be a bit more closer..? All advice appreciated. :) Thanks.
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First things first. Do not talk to the kid about abortion. No disrespect.
So what do you do now? You wait. I don't think you messed anything up, because he was obviously talking to you because he wanted to. Now what he needs, is a LITTLE space. Let him see what it's like to not have you around for a few days, maybe a week. I'm not talking about being rude to him. You should still wave and say hi to him whenever you see him in the hallways and stuff. I'm saying that you should leave him wanting a little bit more from you. The mysterious type, ya know? =)
I'm 22, and I've dealt with a lot of boys just like this. If you use this trick for just a little while, until he approaches you again, it should work in your favor. Just keep it simple, friendly, and always look and feel as confident as possible.
Don't let it discourage you if he takes him a while. Some guys are very different then others. Maybe he's shy about expressing what he feels for you? You need to give him a little while to figure out what exactly is going through his mind. Then when he starts talking to you again, I wouldn't hold back for a second. Tell him everything that you've been feeling.
Good luck!
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If its meant to be, you didnt blow it =] He seems really nice, keep talking, ask about his past (not too personal) what he thinks on certain topics, like abortion-or something creative. If you dont have his number get it.
You;ve had other boyfriends, so you'll know what to do :D
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