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A couple of days ago my girlfriend broke up with me. She told me her parents found out about our physical relationship and didn't want us to be anything more then friends. We'll she didn't tell me at first and just started acting weird like pushing me away. She told me when they said we couldn't hangout outside of school (We hardly see each other in school since were not in the same grade) and she wanted me to stop walking her. So its only been 3 days since we last talked and i never stopped thinking about her and about what happened. Our relationship was never perfect we ran into a lot of problems but overcame them. The day after she told me i wrote her a note saying everything (how i felt about her). And i asked her if she wanted to pick up were we left when this blows over. And she told me that she couldn't make me wait. And that's all she said and that we can only be friends. I wasn't sure that she would say lets wait this out and we can text like we usually do every day. But if she were to say no lets just be friends i expected more. Because i thought we had more. I'm a good guy i never put any pressure on what we did i let her know if she felt uncomfortable at all to let me know. But her parents don't see that they probably think im like all the other guys that just want a girl for their body and don't really care about them. I wish they could see how much i love their daughter but i was always pretending to be a friend.
Im sorry for making this so long theirs so much more to say but ill cut it off here. I want advice on how to deal with this.
What do you think i should do?
What is she thinking about? She use to say stuff like I'll always love you and your a great guy and i cant believe i almost lost you (Something similar happened b4 and she's broken my heart many times). But when her parents say no she makes me think that it was all a lie or it doesn't matter anymore. I know we were in love but will she come back to me again?
"Empty" is how i feel without her
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Well it is amazing the pressure parents have on their kids. She maybe the kinda child that listens to her parents. That maybe why she totally cut you off. But just know that you are going to fall in love with many girls. You are just a kid and you will prolly fallin love with over 20 girls before you even come close to finding the right girl. All you can do it move on. Get out and meet different girls. Who knows you may even find someone else. So I think that you should just move on it will be hard at first but just keep thinking that she prolly wasn't the one in the first place. You will make it!
Good Luck!
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Im kind of going thru a situation EXACTLY like this; My boyfriends older 21 im 16 I love him to death and believe it or not he loves me. My parents put a restraning order on him but we are so much in love that that did nothing to our relationship. I mean I still see him my parents have no idea but I still do ; All im saying is this girl is just saying I cant make you wait, we can be friends. If she loves you the way you love her then her response should be I love you, I would want nothing more than to be with you so if you want to wait and we can wait till all this blows over then I would love to continue on with our relationship, something along those lines. You know? Maybe she doesnt want to piss her parents off and still date you. I dont know what kind of girl she is. But I mean if she felt the same way then she would be doing anything too still date you talk to you. She would be an emotional wreck. So I think personally you should just text her and say (her name) I love you, I will wait for you I want to be with you so I WILL WAIT if you want to continue where we left off when all this is over with then I will be right here. I want you to be happy so I will do whatever you want me too do. If she writes back we should be friends then thats what she wants you cant force yourself on her you know? Be friends with her this cant be easy on you knowing that but atleast you are still in contact sooner or later she might realize she misses you and wants to be with you. If she responds and says I love you and I want to be with you then you know that you guys will wait and that there may be a future for you guys(:
Sorry it was so longg(:
Good luck(;
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