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trust issues


Question Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 2:35 am

Okay. So as my precious question. How to get my boyfriend back. I got him back. A week after he broke up with me. We got back together. Im the happiest person alive. I love him with all my heart. Its been almost a week. We spend every minute of every second possible together. But he still has his doubts that I might be talking to that guy from LA. And im not. I told him that I didn't want nothig to do with him.

But I want to know how can I prove to my boyfriend that im being faithfull and honest. It hurts me to see that he doesn't trust me. I know its only been a week or so but how can I prove that im not talking to anyone. I love him wit all my heart. And I don't plan on loosing him ever again.


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TLBSANDIEGO answered Monday April 20 2009, 12:12 am:
Is there a reason why he feels like that did somthing happen in the past to make him feel like that.If so then you need to keep reminding him that he is the only one for you, and there is no one else in you life but him.And if there is someone in LA then you need to cut your ties.Now if nothing happened in the past to make him feel like that,then there maybe a jelious issues on his part and possible security issues that have nothing to do with you.If thats the case then you need to sit down and talk to him about that,if it is security or jelious issues and if it is not a adressed then there is a chance of more issues in the future.I hope this helped..

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bobbobbob12346 answered Thursday April 16 2009, 2:38 pm:
well heres something you can do to show him that you are not talking to the guy in LA. but just because he believes you about this, will not mean that he trusts u. send the guy in LA a text saying that u never want to talk to him again because you are happy with your boyfrend n wudnt dream of cheating on him. then leave your phone ouot by your boyfrend and leave the room for a while. maybe your boyfriend will go through your texts and realize you are telling the truth. if not then show him the text yourself. hope i helped!

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Trauma answered Thursday April 16 2009, 9:08 am:
Trust is an extremely important part of a relationship, & you can't expect him to fully trust you again instantly after you've broken that trust. You just have to give it time, & let him realize that you really are being honest, & only want him. There's really no sure-fire way to gain his trust back besides giving him time to realize it on his own, because regardless of what you try to do, chances are he'll still have his doubts. And I understand that it hurts you, but you have to remember that you hurt him, too.

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