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Scared it's too late
I am a senior and soon i will graduate, my biggest regret is that I never asked the girl I like(who is a sophmore) to the prom or a date or anything, I have classes with her but other than that we rarely make contact out of school, I am a really shy guy but I have fun talking to her and she is also easy to talk to, and trust me a shy guy like me doesn't have an easy time to talking to many people, basically I like her alot and I have a big crush on her but I don't want to tell her how I feel about her because if she does'nt feel the same way, talking to her again would be really akward, Some friends say it's too late and some say I should just walk up to her and just ask her. What should I do?
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what you are going through a lot of guys go through. shyness sucks and i can truly relate. i've been in the same situation as you before. it's probably going to be too too hard ask her out on a date date. the simplest thing to do is someday while talking to her, just say something like "we should do something some time". just ask her to come over to watch videos or something. it's very low key but it's something she'd likely want to do. if in class she says how she likes to surf or rollerblade or whatever, just say "we should do that sometime". you want to get this being more of an out of school thing. don't do soemthing like meet up and confess your love. you'll scare her away. it wouldnt be bad to maybe say something when you hang out like. " i'm glad we've got to spend time together, i've always liked you" you want her to know you do like her but not be too too forward. it's hard to like someone and be shy too. rejection is not easy to deal with or to get over. you're not alone at all. i'm s shy guy that took forever to get over this. i'm not even completely over it. if you're shy and not model material you have to put work in. in the future, try to ask people out before you like them. it's much easier. when shy, we tend to want to make some kind of connection before actually asking a person out. but when you go to ask this person out it's much much harder to have the courage to do. there is too much riding on it. if you do ask her to do stuff and she accepts, you can't hang out too many times before you let her know that you'd want to actually go on a true date. if you wait too long you'll be in the friendzone and it's darn near impossible to get out of that. i hope i was some help and if you find my advice helpful...feel free to ask me any questions. i'd try to help.
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The thing you need to consider here is that you'll be graduating soon, & she'll still be in school. Unless you trust her 100%, it may not be a good idea to start a relationship with her, because she'll be away from you during the day. But, if you really like her & trust her, make your move. That way you won't have to wonder "what if" for the rest of your life. If she doesn't want a relationship, then don't let it get you down. Your life is pretty much just beginning. And if you're going to college, you'll have plenty of chances to meet other girls (even if you're not going, too).
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