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typical teenage problems
I know this isnt some interesting question to answer but i really need some advice.
so heres the deal..
I had these two friends. They were my best friends in the entire world and some of the best kinds of people i know. They were sisters, so it was easy to see them both together, and not to mention our parents are best friends. When i say best friends, i also mean buisness partners.
One of the friends and myself are currently in 8th grade, her sister is in 9th. Anyways, where to begin?
I guess i could start out telling you that they were the most friendly people on the planet. they were kind, charming and polite. This past year has been bumpy. We have fought non- stop and its all because of them changing. There becoming typical materialistic, extremely fake girls. Thats the only way to put it. Last year they met a girl my age, that we used to be mutual friends with. Now they are obsessed with her. And vise versa.
i could deal with that. i have a ton of friends and another best friend i met in 3rd grade to hang out with. But everything started to get out of hand when they met.. of course a guy.
They started doing things behind there moms back that noone would ever expect them to do. This guy is a horrible drug addict. hes in 11th grade and is way to crazy for them. One of the girls claimed to be in love with him and got so upset she started cutting herself. They started sending pictures of themselves half dressed to him. Their mom found out and they were forbidden to see him.
i guess im pretty mature for my age and see things differently than them, because what happened next, changed everything.
Everything had been going fine. They had their problems but i stayed out of it. Until one day i found out they snuck out to the movies with this boy. Not only was i upset because they could get hurt, but they had acted like they hated him. they lied to me. so, when i heard about this they happened to still be inside the theater. i did the thing that made sense to me and told my mom, who then told their mom. i got them into a lot of trouble.
they found out it was me and we had it out at lunch the next day. i told them they need to grow up and theres more to life than makeup and mirrors. That was about a month ago and we still havent said a word to eachother. i dont know if you all agree with what i did, but i honestly thought i was doing the right thing and still stick to that. i want the old people i know back. not these boy obsessed monsters.
so i guess what i want to know is what do i do? i dont know if i really want to be friends with them again, or anything like that but keep in mind our parents are buisness partners and i will have to keep seeing them until i go to college.
i guess im asking for help on this whole situation. i dont know what to do anymore. im sick of the drama.
oh and i dont plan on apoligizing, frankly i didnt do anything wrong.
if you have gotten this far and havent quit on me THANK YOU! and im so sorry this is so long.
thanks again.
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It is more of a phase that they are going through. I am sure their mother is thankful that you told your mother where they had gone. I think you just need to make new friends. Someone you can relate to. There in that stage where they want attention. They want to be in the popular crowd. they know their parents wont approve of what the have to do to mantain attention like that. so of course they are going to lie. i would just ignore them they will grow out of it eventually.
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hehe your most welcome..firstly you sound like such a sweet girl and you are mature for your age.what i think the problem is that i think theyr growing up faster than you and the girl in grade 9 is influencing the younger sister.these girls will oventually grow out of this rebellious stage but probibly not until theyr 19 they probibly do this because theyr parents dont trust them or give them enough freedom to do anything they dont have an open relationship with their parents.you on the other hand do and i think you did the right thing because these girls dont no what theyr getting themselves into its dangerous and could end up being hurt or rapped while this guy is on drugs(you never know) i think that you shouldnt hang out with them because they may influence you or you may find out worse stuff about them and not no what to do.i dont think your that type of girl and everyone changes.you should just be the better person even if you didnt do anything wrong jusst apologise and do your part then after that keep your distance so that when you do have to see them with your family you are in good terms.But i support you completely and im sorry to say it but this is just part of growing up. The girl cutting herslef sounds like shes doing it for attention very stupid to do such a thing over a guy..just step back seriously theyr bad news.the old girls you loved could be long gone..im sorry you have to deal with this
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