15/f
I have never made out with a guy before and i really want to. The thing is, i dont know how.
I know that me and my boyrfriend will be using tounge but what do you do? Do you start out as a regular kiss? Then do i put my tongue in his mouth first or him? What do i do when he puts his tongue in my mouth? I need steps please. I need to know exactly how to do it and what i do with my tongue and when he puts his tongue in my mouth. What do i do? Please help.
J3nni3 answered Wednesday March 25 2009, 11:36 am: Okay so your fifteen and uve never made out?..thats odd...but sort of respectable..anywayz..depends on the type of person you are..if you like to take control in a relationship then you can iniciate tongue action..but if your the submissive then let him...You may want to start as a regular kiss just in case he may not want tongue..at the moment. you can suck on his tongue and play wrestling with his tongue...you can lick his lips with your tongue while massaging his nostrils.and hold his butt..so that he can feel sum type of plasure in the bottom area..and this is how you succesfully make out! [ J3nni3's advice column | Ask J3nni3 A Question ]
Juxtapose answered Wednesday March 25 2009, 2:31 am: Do not worry about the kissing. Your boyfriend will know what to do. And you can just follow him. I don't want to be a "killjoy", but be careful okay? You never can know what might happen. [ Juxtapose's advice column | Ask Juxtapose A Question ]
TheMaster answered Wednesday March 25 2009, 12:00 am: Hi, You must be smart for 15 because even though your question is simple it's also quite difficult. Why? Well because it's not like there is "A book of Official Kissing Rules".
What I mean is, some people like it hard and passionate, and messy, and crazy, blah, blah. Others like it gentle and sexy, and provocative, etc...So what I'm saying is that sex and kissing are like people, everyone is different and everybody likes something different. That being said here are some average basics.
1.With a Kiss the holding, hugging, touching is just as important as your lips. Usually the closer the better
2. Start with shorter kisses and graduate to longer ones. Be carfull not to bang teeth together. Kiss straight on then his head to one side and yours to the other
3. Try to get him to french kiss you first by teasing his lips with your tounge
4. Like I said the the hands and the hugs during all of this are just as important as what your mouth is doing.
GL TheMaster [ TheMaster's advice column | Ask TheMaster A Question ]
thewhiterabbit8 answered Tuesday March 24 2009, 11:50 pm: ok, had your problem. NOT A BIG DEAL!!! what you need to do first is realize that NOBODY is just a great kisser. everyone starts somewhere and its always at the bottom, not knowing what to do, and freaking out. so just calm down, take a deep breath and rreellaaaaaxxx. kissing is supposed to be fun! here are a few basic steps to help get you started.
1- its ok to start with tongue depending on what kind of kiss it is. is this a romantic sweet looking-at-the-sunset kiss? in that case go slow and then you can hit the gas. or a rushed in the moment i-can't-wait-to-see-you-after-school kiss? in that case kiss normally for only a moment and then get down to business. one things girls don't realize is that guys love this kiss every once in a while. shows you can't wait!
2- when he puts his tongue in your mouth first (again depending on the type of kiss) don't freak out. you can respond back with a little play. gently stroke his with yours. run your tongue along the inside of his lips. gentle biting on the lips is fine too. whatever the mood calls for.
3- a few other tips to make making out more enjoyable. fingers through the hair. hand creeping up his chest to his neck and cheek. try flicking his tongue with yours before you stick it in his mouth, see what sparks fly. go with the flow. don't think about the kiss and relax, you like kissing!
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