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got caught having sex!
Basically last night my boyfriend stayed the night, and we didn't realise that my Dad was taking the day off work. So after my sister left the house we had sex, very loudly.
After we finished up my boyfriend checked my dad's room and he was 'asleep'
I don't know if he really was or not. I pretty much got dressed and ran to school way early.
How do I deal with this? What do I do if he mentions it? What do I do if he doesn't?
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He probably won't mention it. Here's why: It's hard for fathers to talk to daughters about this kind of thing let alone confront them about what they saw. From all accounts he was snoozing and wasn't awake nor heard you. I wouldn't mention it to him unless he brings it up.
In that case he's probably relieved it's happening under his nose than you not playing it safe. If you can get birth control and tell him you're being very safe it could relieve a ton of tension if he does confront you.
If he talks to you or has your mother do it instead just be open and honest. They may not like it but if they see you're in control and being very careful they'll respect that. Look on the bright side at least you didn't catch them.
You'll be fine here even if he does know but it looks like he didn't see or hear anything. Maybe he's that sound a sleeper. In the future be very discreet. Don't say anything unless he initiates the conversation.
Like I said fathers can't talk freely about sex, puberty, mechanics of it etc. etc. and leave it to mothers. Odds are if he saw anything he'd never bring it up and or leave it to your mother or an older sister or female to talk to you about being sexually active and responsible.
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do not bring it up unless he says something, but it would be good to talk to your mother about going on the pill you don't have to mention that you are sexually active its gust cuz you want to be safe. >_<
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If he doesn't say anything DON'T bring it up! Now does he already know you're sexually active? If he does he probably won't say anything. I'm thinkin he didn't hear anything But you gots to be more careful! And use protection!
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If he doesn't mention it, I wouldn't say a word about it if I were you, because if he doesn't, then he might have actually been asleep, then you'll just be setting yourself up for an awkward conversation, & possibly trouble, if he's mad about it.
If he does mention it, there's not much to do beside apologize. You can't exactly deny it. Chances are he won't be mad at you forever for it.
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