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SEXY TIME HELP! Haha
My Ex and myself waited about 7 months before having sex. The sex came natural, we loved one another. I felt very comfortable with him. He was my first.
After breaking up after 2 years of dating, we still had sex as friends. As time grew on, we drifted apart and I found myself sexually attracted to others.
Recently, I had sex with a friend of a very long time. The sex wasn't as easy because we weren't completely comfortable with each other. I realize you must trust you sex partner, and I did. It just wasn't as comfortable.. ya know?
I didn't know how to break out of my shell. I realy need help. I honestly don't know the fundementals of sex.. if thats what you want to call it.
I have a few questions, answering any of them would be Awesomeeee!
1) When girls are on bottom are they supposed to do anything?
2) How do you REALLY ride a dick. Not being funny, I seriously feel awkward sometimes when I'm on top. HELP!!!! (Hahaha)
Basically, I need as much detail as possible. How do I truely break out of my shell?
3) Guys WHAT DO YOU LIKE! HELP! :)
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There is no sure-fire formula for good sex.
Everyone is different, we all have our own comfort levels and preferences. Even if it's fireworks and shooting stars every time with one person, the next might not be impressed.
This whole thing works through practice. There are no "rules", except that you both respect one another's boundaries and preferences and (ideally) discuss them ahead of time so there are no unpleasant surprises.
However, a few things hold true in all situations:
It will be a more enjoyable experience for both of you (as you already stated) if you are in a committed, loving relationship.
Also, be confident. Don't worry so much about what he likes as what you like, and what works for you. A tip: most women find it easier to reach orgasm when on top. Coincidentally, a lot of guys prefer woman-on-top because they're lazy (just kidding, guys).
That way, you know what you want and, as a result, you'll probably be a better partner.
Don't get self-absorbed, though. Be sure to listen to your partner's input and consider his opinions.
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I'm a girl, so I can't answer the last question, but when you're on bottom, there's not much you can do. I mean, don't lay there like you're dead or anything, just moan or kiss them or scratch their back, depending on what they like.
When you're on top, you just sort of move up & down on it. It's hard for me, too, but it's best if you kind of lean in towards them, so you're kind of sliding on it instead of bouncing. It makes it much easier.
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