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Should I wait till next year? Or....
Well lately I've had this crush(the whole year) and had finally gotten up the courage to tell him how I feel. But the exact same day I was about to tell him, he asked out another girl. I was really pissed because their personalities don't match whatsoever and they barely talk at all. Anyway, about a week after this happens I keep thinking they're not gonna last long. Then, on that saturday we were at BRH(baton rouge high) taking a placement test for next year an I meet this guy.
He is my friend's friend and she introduced us.
He was super sweet and mistaked me for someone else at first.( he asked if I was still datig someone... Which is kinda weird to ask someone of u haven't seen them in a while) but we talked for atleast 30 mind and I love him!
He talked to me more in those 30 mind than Kyle ever did (my other crush)
So I find myself day dreaming about him ( he kinda looks like Fred from YouTube) and I barely know him! So then realized that I won't see him until next fall!
My friend told emily(his friend) that I liked Him....but I didn't at the time an she comes up to me and starts calling me bitch an hoe (kinda Playfully) a she says he's off limits and now I probably have no chance of being his friend atmost gf. She prolly told him.
Well I need to know if I should tell Kyle now (even though he has a gf) or wait until I see James this fall.
It's really bugging me now.
Also how can I tell if Kyle likes me or is trying to make me jealous? And how can I get him to notice me more( and how to talk to him)
Sorry for the longness ( I'll rate high for whoever just reads this LOL)
All help will be greatly appreciated!!!
Thanks =]
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wow..well where do i start?!? i say you dont tell kyle anything unless he is done with his gf for sure because this way you will that he really doestn like his gf[im sorry but sometimes opposites attract :[
on the other side there's this "fred looking guy"
[fred is a hottie!]sounds like a sweetie and if you think you could work something out with him you should go for it. i say this emily girl is jealous and probably has like a secret crush on him and if she's upset then there has to be a reason..i bet he's interested :]
this may seem like alot to take in but here's what i would do...wait till kyle breaks up with his girl when he does see if he is interested in you and if he is then thats awesome. otherwise think more about "fred" although you have to consider you wont see him for long periods of time...just do what feels good in your heart and you'll know what makes you happy.
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Whoa! Do not tell Kyle your feelings just for the fact that as your friend you should respect his decision even if you don't approve of his gf and don't wait for him to break up either. My guy friend has been waiting for me to break up with my BF and it's been 4 years! LOL! So yeah! No sense in waiting. As for James. The reason that emily came at you like that is because she most likely likes him too and once she goes out with him you can't. Friends ex-boyfriends are off limits. So wait for James because he'll be available to flirt with and be friends with. If he talked to you for 30 mins then that means you're either cool or he's interested. He wouldn't have wasted his time if he wasn't.
Good Luck! ^_^
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If you want to salvage anything at all with your friendship with this Kyle fellow, do not tell him you have feelings for him right now. It's incredibly disrespectful to do that to someone in a relationship and nothing good can ever come from it. Imagine this: You do tell him you have feelings for him and he leaves the girl he's currently with; what is there to make you think he wouldn't just as easily leave you for a another girl batting her eyelashes at him? Do not tell Kyle you have feelings for him unless he and this girl part ways. Kyle is not trying to make you jealous, I'm sorry. Guys typically don't play this card, ever. We're very simple minded creatures, you must understand this. And why wait until Fall to get in contact with this James fellow? In today's day and age, with social stalking...er..."networking" hitting its prime with Facebook, why not try and get in contact with him there? One more piece of advice: Avoid saying you "love" James, especially to his friends or him himself. If you have only spoken to him once, you're barely acquaintances. And who's to say you have to get caught up on just these two guys? I am assuming from your writing that you aren't very old right now, and saying you're taking a placement test at a high school, please oh god please tell me you're taking it for your senior year of high school. If you're in middle school, you're way too young to be worrying about any of this right now. Focus on your academics. Honestly. If you are older than this and I am mistaken, take the advice I gave earlier.
Nick
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