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Confused
Hi, I am really confused..I have a crush on this girl.We already exchange acquaintances and have already been hanging out together like eating lunch and going to malls. We talk a lot and share secrets and etc. But every time we talk, i get this hint that she keeps telling me that I'm his sweetest friend.What does this mean? I really wanted to tell her my true feelings but after hearing this I get second thoughts. Does that mean she s not ready for a relationship or something?
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ADDED: Laying the bait means she's given you something to draw you in and once she has you fall for it and she has you where she wants you. Think in terms of an animal having its hand trapped in a pot containing their favorite food. That's the hunter laying the bait. The animal is trapped because it refuses to let go. In other words she's ensnared you.
In a case like this you MUST consult the source. Tell her you are getting mixed signals about her intentions. Ask her what referring to you as her "sweetest friend" means. Is it a compliment, term of endearment or does she want a relationship?
Just ask her. She will certainly elaborate. It's possible all she wants is friendship but her constant comments to "sweetest" anything is curious. My conclusion is that she's laid bait and a trap to see what you're going to do.
Have a heart-to-heart talk with her and see where things stand. It shouldn't ruin your friendship either. If it did it was never on solid ground to begin with.
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Well it may just mean that you have fallen into the "friend zone" and with girls thats where a lot of guys fall into, but if you can show her your caring flirty side you have a pretty good chance that she will fall for you! So dont tell her your true feelings yet, just wait until she sees how you really are. Hope i helped =]
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