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What have I done wrong?
This is kinda long,I know.
I have been very good friends with a boy(let's name him D) and a girl(let's name her M).
Now,about M:
She was my good friend since kindergarten. She's the same age as me,we got along pretty well,always had things to talk about,etc.Recently,she got a bf(let's name him E) and he's bad news.Me and my other guy friend don't like him at all.In fact,I haven't heard a single good thing about him.Not only that,but she started avoiding me and that other guy,and even came up to us and told us to stay away from them,and she gave me a death glare.I tried to tell her he'll really hurt her-he's a player,exactly like my ex,and I don't want her to go through the hell I've been through when he leaves her for no good reason,but no,she wouldn't listen.She thinks I am jealous!If I was,I would've been with him any time I wanted and she wouldn't be able to do anything about it.Could she be afraid that he'll start crushing on me?Before I even told her all of these,she was ignoring me and running away from me whenever he was around.
Now,here's the case with D:
I met him in 5th grade,we were really good friends,then in 7th grade he moved away and I haven't seen him for a year.A week ago,there was a competition in English,where we met,and after the test,we talked and had fun,then out of the blue he kissed me on the cheek and I did the same.I had a strange feeling-I used to have a little crush on him,but nothing happened.Later I had a few boyfriends etc.We were texting next day and I teased him about how soft his lips were and he said "I think you're saying that because you like me" I said "kinda" and we both laughed.That's the problem:for no good reason,he started ignoring me.He doesn't text me,he's never online,and when he is he never talks to me,I have to send him about 50 msgs before he replies to 1...I haven't argued with him so I really don't know what to do.Any advice will be appreciated.
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People learn from their mistakes. Your friend might get hurt by this guy and you know that. But she doesn't see that, its like she is blinded by love or whatever. She probably thinks he is the best guy in the world. She won't realize he wasn't until he breaks her heart. Your gonna have to be there for her if that happens. You've already told her what you thought about him so she either believes you or not. So just be a good friend and be there for her when she needs it.
Now with you friend I would just keep it as friends. You won't be able to see him alot right? So just give him some space and see what happens from there. He might just be confused about how he feels about you. Good luck!
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Okay even though this girl is a good friend of yours and you want to protect her from this ignorant ass.. You have to let her live and learn, if she can't believe you that is her problem. This girl apperently is in denial about believing that her boyfriend could be such an ignorant. But just let her go, she'll see his true colors soon enough, and when she comes crying to you just let her cry on your shoulder then tell her you told her so. I mean it's not the nicest thing, but you did warn her. She's just got to trust you.
Now, this guy you like that doesn't text back.. Yeah.. No. Let him go, if it takes fifty text messages just to get him to text back let him go he's deffently not worth it. You need someone who will at least text back at the first message don't you think? Deserve better, yeah? Mhm. Plus, with texting that much you make yourself seem desperate, no matter how much you may like a man, don't make yourself look despeate. They will use you and throw you away.
Key: Ignore the man, a man always wants what he can't have. xD
Enjoy being young, have fun. Buh Bye. =D
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Dude, if your friend is blaming you, then let her. Just let her be. That girl needs to understand you were only protecting her. If you were the kind of friend she is probable thinking you are, you'd already have your tounge down her ex boyfriends throat and stuff. She just needs to grow up, and see that you are a real friend. Until then let her wallow in her anger.
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