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I need to get over him but something keeps pulling me back
okay this is kinda long but I'm just desperate for answers. okay there's this guy that I liked since last May and before I started liking him, he would always stare at me, whenever I would pass by him, he wouldn't look at me until I turn around to look at him then I see him looking back at me and when I told him on msn that I liked him, he said he had a girlfriend but after that, he would still stare at me so we spoke on msn a couple of times after the incident. thing is, he's confusing me because sometimes it seems like he's avoiding me and sometimes it seems like he's not. we spoke on msn last december and we were talking fine, he asked me if I had a date in mind for prom and I told him not and I said: do you? and he said: I think so, then today I decided to msg him on msn and we spoke for a little bit then I said something last and then he set his status to away and he didn't reply for over an hour then he signed off...i don't know if I should just get over him or just keep trying to talk to him to get to know him better btw, he seems shy. my friend is planning on hooking me up with another guy who she knows and I think the guy is cute but he reminds me of my crush...they look too much alike:S I don't know if that's healthy for me...what should I do?
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First of all,you need to play cool.
If that first guy says he has a girlfriend,but still gives you some hints he might like you,it could be true.Do you know for sure if he has a gf?Maybe he's shy,and doesn't want you to know.On the other hand,he might not feel anything for you.If your crush talks to you and then ditches you,it's not good.That other guy could like you,and even though he looks a lot alike your crush,it doesn't mean that they are a lot alike.Frankly,no matter how much you like someone,if you have any pride,you will back away from him.But before you do anything,think about what you really want,to avoid any regrets.Personally,I'd let your friend do her thing...
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Ok. First chill out! If you like the guy give him some space. Just try to hook up wiht the other guy. You know the sating," I didn't know I needed her until she was gone". When you hook up with the other guy maybe your crush will feel that way.If he doesn't then he doesn't deserve you. You should see what happens and don't let life keep you down. Destiny has its ways everytime.
Trust me and your friend. She cares about you and is trying to help you. She knows more than you think.
Lifescomplicated.
P.S There are many fish in the sea!
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