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He said.." I like u as a freind ... nothing more.."
Okay!!! ( long... question!! Sorry! )
Well... I FINALLY told the guy I like (Matt) EAXCTLY how I felt about him last night. We were talking (texting...) each other back and forth. I told him... that I loved him ... and that I really did. He told me that he has a girl friend ... and he likes me as a friend and nothing more. I felt awful and embarrased!! I told him... I was crying and I was hurt. He talked to me and we worked everything out. So... he's my FRIEND and ONLY my friend, but I STILL love him. I really care for him 2. I have no idea how 2 get over him.Do you think that maybe ... just maybe he'll like me?? Also...I think I am starting 2 like my crush ...from last year again.(Tanner ) He's nice and funny... but not as sweet as Matt. Should , I go for Tanner? I can talk to him ... okay... but ... I don't want to ruin our friendship, my friends asked him out for me last year... a lot and all the times he said no. I think maybe he MIGHT like me... we laugh and stuff all the time... were buddy-buddy , I think were closer this year. What do you think I should do? I think I should try 2 get over Matt... and go for Tanner. If, you think so ... how should I ask him out? Thanks, and I am sorry this question is so long!!!
Thanks for who ever try's to help !!
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For now, forget about love or anything resembling love. Be open to going out with a number of guys. I don't mean go be a skank. I just mean if you are friendly with 3 or 4 guys, don't be scared to hang out with a couple one week then maybe the others the next week. It's too easy to like one persona nd be fixated on them. When you do that the whole world revolves around whether they like you or not. Just go out and have fun. You'll get to know a few people better. You'll see the good sides and bad sides of a number of guys and you will just get a better feel of what you want. It's like going to a buffet and having a smidge of everything then going back for what you really really like. That's better than just trying the first thing and if you like it filling up on that. You're young anyhow from what I gather. It's good to just practice your social skills anyhow.
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I'm really sorry that things didn't go so well with your friend, but don't let that get you down. You're young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Most people don't like to hear this, but it's best to take your time before jumping into a relationship. You may get lonely, but it's better than dating someone only to realize down the road that they are not someone you like being with. I'd say just take your time, have fun with your friends, & eventually you'll find someone.
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