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I've got a crush but another girl has come into my life
So I've got a crush on a girl who lives in a different town but I'm moving there soon. She likes me back, but about 50% chance we can get something to work.
The second girl I just met and we have very similar personalities. Chances of making something work with her are about 95% (but I'm moving soon :(.
I just can't decide who I like, and I end up thinking about both of them all the time now which makes me feel so confused. Should I try something with 95% girl and hurt my crush's feelings? What if my crush and I never work anything out between us, I'll regret not trying something with 95% girl for the rest of my life. Help!
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Well, if you and 95% girl can see each other a lot, then yeah, go for her!
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I can't decide for you on who you should date, but I can help you make the right choice :] and i think the right choice for you would to be girl #2. You really like her, you already know that there is a 95% chance that you both can make it work, and girl #1 is a very risky bet. Just because you are moving doesn't mean it won't STILL work between you and girl #2. If you really like her, and you are both willing to make some sacrifices to be together, than you guys can manage long distance.
But whatever choice you make, someone is bound to get a little hurt. I mean, since they both like you, it's going to be hard to tell one of them that you like someone else, but they won't be upset for long. And it's really cool that you care about how these girls feel. Its very considerate and sensitive of you :] and seriously, you're just confused because you know that you can't have both of these girls, and that it's going to be hard, but I think you have it figured out. I think that you know that you want to be with girl #2, but the fact that you are moving soon is making you hesitate.
Look, everything is unpredictable, anything can happen, but I believe that your perfect match is girl #2. and if it doesn't work out, then okay, it's not the end of the world. you seem like such a nice guy and you'll make the right choice, I promise. Don't sweat it. :]
hope I helped ! good luck and don't worry ! :] xxo
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Hmmm, wow you're in a situation. It is very kind of you to be concerned about your crush's feelings. You and her are friends too right? if you are close friends then you will both understand that since you and her are both single then you still have the freedom to go out with other people. I think you should choose which ever girl you enjoy spending time with more. It looks like you like the 2nd girl more. You seem like a very considerate, respectful, and loyal guy, so I have a feeling you will make the right choice and not regret it. Good luck! I hope I could be of help.
~Sky
13/f
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