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i am going down the hill
I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, however after our 3rd year we kinda aparted because he was talking to another girl but inspite of it i gave us a chance and have been trying to work with him, our relation have been inconsistent since then we don't talk for months and then we talk again and end up fighting because he suspects me of dating other guys when we don't talk. He refuses to hear or consider anything I have to say against his allegation on me, he is on denial.I have very strong feelings with this person and I don't know how else to fight for us or on is it even worth it based on history of its existence? .Any advice/input would be appreciated!
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He definetly has trust issues if he thinks that your taling to other guys when your not talking to him. He probably just thinks that since he was talking to another girl behind your back that you will talk to another guy behind his back. He thinks that if he did it, you will too. What he did is wrong and him not trusting you is wrong too. He seems to me like the type of person thats gets mad everytime you talk to a guy that isn't him ad that could be dangerous. In my opinion you should break up. If he keeps saying your dating guys behind his back then he could become obsessed with you. I know it sounds weird but its just a thought. Hope i helped.
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if he keeps thinking your cheating on him, he obviously doesnt trust you. and trust is a huge part of a relationship. even if you've been together for 6 years, and he still doesnt trust you after all that, id say its time for a serious talk. talk to him and tell him hes totally wrong and that if he doesnt trust you after 6 years, then you guys shouldnt even be dating. you need to be with someone who will trust that your theres, and no one elses. unlike him, who actually DID cheat on you at one point.
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im sorry, and i hope it works out for the better.
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Ok,so he talks to another girl and you get jealous.He lets it go.Then he suspects you talk to other guys and he goes insane.I kinda don't get it.Does he think you belong to him or something?Anyway,talk to him and sort it all out.He should understand that you have your own space and that if you talk to other guys doesn't mean that you're going to cheat on him.I mean,there should be some trust after you've spent 6 years together in a relationship.Try to reason with him,and see where it leads you.I hope this will help.
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