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dumped


Question Posted Wednesday February 18 2009, 10:33 pm

my ex and i were dating for four months and he hinted at wanting to break up so i did it for him then a month went by and he had hooked up with another person and i started dating a new guy.. but the called me and we talked and he told me that he loved me.. which on his part is HUGE.
so we waited awhile and i broke up with the guy i had been dating.

when my ex and i started dating he told me how much he loved me and never wanted to loose me and that i made him so happy.
blah blah blah.

so then he starts acting weird and i know him well enough to know when he's going to break up with me so we talked and he texted me telling me how much he loved me and that he wasnt ready for a relationship... we dated for two weeks..


its been a month almost and nothing is getting easier.
we go to the same school so i see him every single day. and my friends and family told me to act like i didnt know him to make it easier.. while he is telling me to talk to him and he doesnt exactly understand why i dont talk to him..

i cant decide what to do..
anything would help
please and thank you.


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life_luv_music16 answered Thursday February 19 2009, 7:11 pm:
You are just gonna have to forget about him. The fact that he said he loved you AFTER you were in another relationship tells me that HE wants to see other people but he doesn't want YOU to see other people. Next time he asks you why your not talking to him that you just don't want to be in a relationship with him. If he keeps bugging you then you have to FIRMLY tell him that its over. DO NOT hold back. I hope things get better.

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memesloco answered Thursday February 19 2009, 4:55 pm:
Short sweet and to the point.

FORGET HIM. He's gonna keep pulling the same b.s. he is now......be done with him and move on to bigger and better things.

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cuteblondegirl94 answered Thursday February 19 2009, 3:56 am:
Let me give you some advice from the personal experience:
At this time,boys are very uncertain of their feelings and don't always show them the right way.Or better yet,pretend they have them.He might love you,but the more likely is that he's playing with you.He sees you'll come back to him if he asks you to,and you do.Then,when he decides he doesn't need a girlfriend,he dumps you.After a while he needs you and you get back together.Seriously,how long do you plan on keeping that up?Don't let him play with you,explain that you're not his toy,and look for a better boyfriend,who will show his true feelings.That's what I did,and it worked for me.I hope it helps you.

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