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He is Nice but never picks me for Fun.
Hi i am 23 years old /female and doing masters in UK. Me and my friend both are from India. This boy in my class is very handsome,sensible,respectful who don't even like to smoke or drink but uncomfortable with girls,as he don't feel like hugging them or greeting them.he stayed with boys all the time when he was in India, though he got good girl friends.it's been 5 months we are friends and it is always me who start the conversation, text message or calls him. i like him and somehow he knows. he got no other close girl friends except me. He always stays with boys and enjoys to the fullest. He never picks me up for enjoyment. He stays in my Halls and as he respect me he comes to my flat occasionally. he knows that i will never say No to him for anything as helping in studies, food or any related information.
we both respect each other and know our moral values.
as i respect him for his sensibility i gifted him shirt on his birthday and he refused to take it, by saying that it is just months that we are friends and i can't take this.
but i didn't show him off that it literally hurts me but was nice to him for weeks.
however,from couple of weeks from now i was backoff from him.
as i stopped calling/texting/ or even looking or meeting to him. we only meet in class and have conversation that's it .
He complains to me that i have changed and the excuse i give it to him was that i am busy.
but i do reply to him if he texts me or calls me.
i made him clear to my friendship and i seriuoslly looked positive sign in him.
i don't want to end up this friendship as he is soo cool. i am preety sure i don't want to be in relationship with him as after studies he got different plans and i got different so it will never work it out.
i am confused as he do make a comment but i don't know if he is even interested in me or not.
the only problem with him is he hardly gives feedback to me and recalls me when he needs only help in studies? what should i do? give me some advice.
Thanks alot for giving time.
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Well.. at first it made it seem that you liked him, and then when he offended you by not taking your gift, you were hurt, (I would be too) and then you distanced yourself from him. That distance clearly ..upset him? The reason he said you changed, is because he noticed that you stopped starting the conversation and what not, I think instead of acting like you weren't mad about the shirt thing, I would tell him. Communication is key, TELL him how you feel about him. Some guys are really oblivious and don't realize that you like them, no matter how obvious you make it.
If he only talks to you when he needs something, I would say he doesn't really have any interest in you.
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