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i realllyy like this guy and cant give up. HEEELPP !!!!


Question Posted Wednesday February 18 2009, 8:08 pm

hi.
i realllyy like this guy and were both 17. we hangout alot but i think he just wants to hook up. we hooked up twice but we didnt have sex. im still a virgin. we madeout and he felt me up and fingered me. but now when we hangout he will comeover but we wont hook up or anything we just hangout and talk and have fun. i really like this guy and i want him to like me. he told me he liked me but then about a week later he told me he didnt and that he didnt want a girlfriend becuae he got out of a bad year and a half relationship with my bestfriend (at the time, i hate her now) but that was about six months ago. so i think he would be moving on now but anyway, i told him like a week and a half ago i was done and he could come find me when he accually wanted to be wth me cause i couldnt have him keep playing with my feelings, anyway last night he IMed me and asked if i wanted to hangout, i said idk then he said sorry for the way he acted and of course i hungout with him and we had soo much fun. i really like him, should i just continue to hangotu with him like i am and do you think he will like me if i do?? oh yeah about a month ago he said he didnt wanna go out with me becuawse he might miss out on something (so he bassicly told me i wasnt good enough) but i really like him HELP PLEASEEEEEE !!!!

Thank you and im sorrryyy its loong <3

All my love [:


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WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday February 19 2009, 5:44 pm:
I wouldn't. Its just going to hurt, because it sounds like you're looking for exactly what he is avoiding.

Tell him you like him, tell him that if he's interested to give you a call in 6 months when he's got his head sorted out, and say goodbye in a friendly way.

If you continue to hang out with him, do not under any circumstances sleep with him. You will really screw yourself up in the head if you sleep with a guy casually who you like.

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chuckweed007 answered Thursday February 19 2009, 4:15 am:
Well, if you like him I would hang out with him. It sounds like he likes you now. Maybe he truly didn't want a girlfriend at that time. I'd just be careful if all he's after is sex, but if you two genuinely get along when you just hangout, then its worth going after.

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