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should i?
so i met this kid about two months ago at a concert. weve gone out like 5 or 6 times. things are moving pretty fast and im fine with that. things just get really hot when we're together. were hanging out tomorrow, and were going to spend most of the time in my car. i know we're going to hook up, so far weve been to third base and he really wants to go all the way. im a virgin and i dont exactly know if i want to just yet. i do want to, but then i think about it and talk myself out of it. should i go for it?
16/f if it matters
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You two met just two months ago and are experiencing lust. It is understandable at this age of course, but I am almost positive that you would regret "going all the way". If you want to continue hanging out with him then I recommend places that aren't so private, that way there isn't that temptation and opportunity. If you really think that you two have something, you should get to know him first instead of basing your relationship around just the physical. Save yourself for something and someone special.
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If you "don't know just yet" then DON'T DO IT!!!
If you weren't a virgin I wouldn't even be answering this question because after I lost my virginity and got majorly hurt by the guy I gave it to, sex was more casual for me.
Do not do anything until you are completely sure and when you are that guys' girlfriend. From the looks of it you are just casually dating and I can say with 97% certainty that if you give it up to this guy that fast then you will never hear from him again. Believe me, I've been there! Do not do it until you are exclusively dating for a while and when you don't have any question in your mind about doing it!
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I think you should only go for it if you really want to. Dont let anybody talk you into anything you dont want to do because you will regret it! Also think long and hard about this before you do anything because if your saying things are going real fast then that may just be his plan! Slow things down and if he really likes you then he will be okay with it but if he's not than you know what he was there for. Be safe and smart!
Hope i helped =]
-JABOiNKER
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Dear should I
you should not go for it, and if things are movin to fast step up yo the plate and say "hey thing are movin a little to fast we just need to slow it down ok" and if he say "why" than that show you wright there to NOT go for it ok if u need any more advice emil me at ccedericka@yahoo.com
~cedericka craft
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