BoriquaGirl145 answered Wednesday February 11 2009, 4:57 pm: First of all,are you going out with her or do you like her?Well...if you're going out with her tell her you love her and if she doesn't say it back then she's probably not ready to say it unless she really means it and feels it.Good luck!!! [ BoriquaGirl145's advice column | Ask BoriquaGirl145 A Question ]
I'm going to start off by saying this: if a girl smiles A LOT when she's around you, she probably likes you as more than a friend.
The Top 5 other things to look for:
1. She laughs at your jokes.
- No matter how many times she's heard them, or how totally lame they are, she'll laugh at them. End of story.
2. She touches you (not sexually, get your head outta the gutter!)
- She plays with your hair, or fixes your shirt or something. Maybe she even holds your hand, that's a pretty good sign that she likes you.
3. She includes you in things.
- She talks to you even when she's with her friends. She makes an effort to include you, like by asking you things. Even lame questions like, 'What color should I paint my nails?' might be her way of trying to include you.
4. She makes an effort to talk to you/see you.
- She texts you just to say hello, she's late to class just because she wanted to hug you good bye, or she calls you just to see what you're doing.
5. She trusts you, and talks to you seriously.
- She tells you things that she might not normally tell others. Like, if she's in a bad mood and tells others she's fine, she'll actually tell you that she failed that geometry test, or her friends aren't including her lately. She opens up to you and isn't afraid to be herself.
annon answered Wednesday February 11 2009, 11:41 am: i had this problem too for a while (im 17 btw and a guy) you could do this over MSN or any Instant messenger you may have, when nothings going on like when you 2 are not chatting say your a little bored or sotmhign and ask her if she wants to play a little gmae of Q and A and that she has to answer only the truth. dont go nuts and ask her how big her boobs are or silly shit like that, start off with a few lite onse like have any bro's or sisters? then after you can think of a few more then ask her if shes ever liked you in that way or if she does now. then would be a good time to confess your love to her unless youve allready done it.
hope i helped a little
(btw this idea came from the girl i like :P she started that little convo going and thats how i ended up knowing that she dosnt like me in that way at all... :'( hope it goes better for you :D good luck matey) [ annon's advice column | Ask annon A Question ]
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