i had this problem too for a while (im 17 btw and a guy) you could do this over MSN or any Instant messenger you may have, when nothings going on like when you 2 are not chatting say your a little bored or sotmhign and ask her if she wants to play a little gmae of Q and A and that she has to answer only the truth. dont go nuts and ask her how big her boobs are or silly shit like that, start off with a few lite onse like have any bro's or sisters? then after you can think of a few more then ask her if shes ever liked you in that way or if she does now. then would be a good time to confess your love to her unless youve allready done it.
hope i helped a little
(btw this idea came from the girl i like :P she started that little convo going and thats how i ended up knowing that she dosnt like me in that way at all... :'( hope it goes better for you :D good luck) [ annon's advice column | Ask annon A Question ]
Boe answered Wednesday February 11 2009, 12:15 am: You are so young, you wonder if he is interested in you. If you have been talking to him for a while, you might ask him if he would like to do something sometime. You know, sometimes when they look at you, give you good eye contact and stay interested in what you are saying, this could be a clue. If he seems to walk to you, not you to him, he sits by you/not you by him. Things like that. What does he talk about? Does he talk about what your interests are, or does he talk about only his? Some of these are indicators. Good luck I'm sure soon, you will find out. [ Boe's advice column | Ask Boe A Question ]
Kirstenishere answered Tuesday February 10 2009, 10:39 pm: you know a guy cares about you when he wants to see you doing well. He cares when he wants to see you happy.
You know when a guy cares about you when he calls out of the blue just to see how your day is going ... or when he does something nice for you.
Some guys will care about someone right away .. then after a couple of months they dont care anymore.
If your looking for a relationship then it is always best to wait a couple of months before getting serious with eachother -- if he is willing to wait then he likes you and respects you.
If he is not willing to wait and he strays away .. then u saved yourself a ton of heartache [ Kirstenishere's advice column | Ask Kirstenishere A Question ]
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