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So thers this guy..
ok so there is this guy i kind of like. It's not a big deal i just like him a little bit. But still, i want him ti like me. He is way nice and so so funny. We have two classes together and we sit next to eachother in one and talk like the entire time! I went to a dance with him and we had a really good time. But, i think he likes another girl. I know some people who says he does. I can't help but be jealous! i don't want to know a way to make him like me because there really is not a way of doing so. I guess i just want to know how to act around him to let him know i'm available? I guess that's the way to put it. I just want him to maybe be a little interested. Have him know i am a fun person, and we could have something good. It sounds pretty lame and stupid but help!!
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Dear So there's this guy,
This can be a frustrating situation to be in I think we have all been there at some point. However, the key to getting beyond this is learn how guys think. Now we think on the level I am interested so why can't we just talk. Guys don't unfortunately. What attracts a guy to a female is a sense of mystery a sense of I don't quite have her yet. So if this is someone you could see yourself with you have to get out of the friend zone and step into the girlfriend zone. The way you do this is to step away from him meaning become busy if you can change seats in class do so. If he asks why tell him you like switching things up, if you talk a lot on the phone say that you have other things to do. Basically what I am saying is get a life and once you get one he becomes interested in you even more and will work to find a place in your life. Men like the chase and if it is obvious to him that you like him without him having to work for your affection he will mistake it for the love of a sister or even worse a mother and what do most people do two those people they take them for granted. So you have to ask yourself "Do I want to be seen as mama? Or do I want to be seen as the girl he can't wait to win her heart? You decide. Work it girl! God Bless!
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okay well if ya'll went to a dance together than he should like you. unless he went with you as friends and he really thinks ya'll are just friends. in that case just go up to him and ask like "hey i was wondering if you wanted to go..." i mean anyone who says guys are supossed to ask girls out are dumb. this is the 21st century. then when ya'll go do something talk to him and get to know him more and then ask him about the girl you think he likes be like "so what do you think of so and so" maybe something like that will work
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Trust me when I say, he already knows. You went to the dance together, you talk a lot. He knows you're a good person. If he didn't think so, he wouldn't talk to you. Okay, to hit the nail on the head here, guys are clueless to girl games and clues. Sometimes it's just so easier to walk up and tell him, or write a note or something. Telling him you're available and interested will save you the stress from wondering why he doesn't notice you, or if he even cares. I can almost guarantee that he probably does, but doesn't know how to say it. Confidence is a very big key in catching a guys eye. SO! GO OUT THERE AND MAKE MAMA PROUD! ;D
Good luck!
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Well My advice would be to continue talking to him, build a better relationship with him, when yall become really good friends invite him over to your house to hang out, usually really good friendships lead into relationships. Call him talk to him on the phone, Laugh and tell him jokes. That's what builds relationships. It takes time. Be yourself around him Thats what most guys like:)
Hope my advice helped.
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